Six Reasons Why Men Are Avoiding Marriage

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Thanks but it's hard b/c people look at you like ur crazy now a days for stuff I think is just common sense. There's a big reason why ALL my cousins, male AND female are single and childless.
Also I'm starting to get a little tired of running into dudes who are jaded b/c of their past choices in women. It's like I'm being punished b/c they got burned for chasing azz and titties with no substance.
I mean dudes coming off straight rude and confrontational on dates.

I'm sitting in Panera Bread with my DS right now about to meet up with a dude I met online. But prior to the meetup, you would've thought I was the FBI trying to do a raid on a trap house!
"Oh u SAY u new to online dating, huh?"
"Oh I don't answer those types of questions,"
"Oh date long enuff and you'll peep the game!"

Like damn! I'm not going to be punished for someone else's prior lack of judgement in a mate. I give everyone I meet the benefit of the doubt but people so closed off in our culture. Dating shouldn't be stressful. Oh well. We'll see how it goes.
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Well, I wish you the best of luck.You couldn't pay me CEO money to get back in the dating game right now.
Please continue to be careful, dudes are insane out there right now. I saw one guy start wailing on a female because she wouldn't give him her number. I wasn't raised like that and I can't believe the things that these punks are doing nowadays. Rejection is part of dating, everyone doesn't like everyone that approaches them. But somehow, these egotistic nutcases think they're king and ruler of the planet and every woman should fall in love with them on sight.

It's crazy....scary crazy.
 

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Id more women had your mindset :ohlawd:
It has it's advantages and disadvantages growing up like we did. Our parents gave us a lotta love but we didn't have much. What ya'll know about kerosene heaters when the lights off in the winter and hand me downs? Lmao! Didn't matter to me b/c I just loved seeing my mom and dad together.
So both of them were never good with finances, but they are amazing parents. You can talk to them about ANYTHING. Ain't no prudes in my family.
 

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Well, I wish you the best of luck.You couldn't pay me CEO money to get back in the dating game right now.
Please continue to be careful, dudes are insane out there right now. I saw one guy start wailing on a female because she wouldn't give him her number. I wasn't raised like that and I can't believe the things that these punks are doing nowadays. Rejection is part of dating, everyone doesn't like everyone that approaches them. But somehow, these egotistic nutcases think they're king and ruler of the planet and every woman should fall in love with them on sight.

It's crazy....scary crazy.
lmao! Yeah these waters are treacherous! I don't hook up outside of relationships, so that right there makes a lotta guys swipe left. When I do meet them they're convinced something is wrong with me or they've got so many red flags themselves that I can't even get down like that. I don't do fukk buddy arrangements or fighting over men or sharing men. So if all else fails, Imma go back overseas, sell my car, and live in a remote Japanese village and teach English and call it a life.
As for today's date, I'm meeting in a public place, and I came early so I can do a lil recon b4 he arrives. He doesn't have my number and if things go left there's a cop in the corner.
But chess and a chai latte...what could possibly go wrong?!

Smh date and get married in America brahettes!
 

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Words from a woman use to taking the old dudes you aspire to be to the bank. :troll:


Which is why your opinions on this thread are useless. Who would even consider your marriage advice or thoughts on these subject matters when you're an admitted stripper and whore! :russ:
 

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My reply to the prior post, my brother, was based on the other posters that had already not considered marriage because they saw themselves as losers in divorce. I would imagine that they have a more positive outlook on other endeavors they consider in their lives-otherwise why take any chances if you are sure to fail.

I am concerned about your response regarding the resiliency of women when it comes to dating and our responses to unsuccessful relationships. You seem to be painting all women with a very broad brush. While I am sure that their are men and women that take breakups badly and may not be good marriage material, most are. I am unsure of the significance of the year 2008 in your reply.


first all speak is made in general speak.
so, yes....
my post was a sweeping generalization.
second,...
yes around 2008, is when females in general bought into playing the role.
or, just all together said fukk creating the conversational dialect and routine.
that is needed to create a committal.
nowadays, people are just mating.
while, playing the role.
or, creating a roster of mates and not being fully adept, at just what they are actually doing.
the destruction of valuable virtuous females to create a commitment with.
is occurring as we speak.
Most people don't pay attention to the movie they are starting in.
so, at this juncture....
we are all living the degradative period, of real committal based and valueable women coming to a close in america.
we are living what will soon become the dialogue.
of what has been occurring in America, for close to a decade.
 

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Wait who's really taking the L in this exchange... The 59 year old man who's paper gets him young bytches
Or the young bytches with a 59 year old dikk in their mouth blowing some old freak in exchange for cash or gifts

I'd rather be the old pervert than the gold digger :heh:
 

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Marriage is fukked. This piece of paper that is potentially gonna make me lose half my shyt if we don't work out?
80 Percent of Divorces Are Filed By Women

According to the National Center for Health Statistics 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce. Of the marriages that end in divorce, 80 percent of the divorces are initiated (filed) by women.

http://www.uplifting-love.com/2013/08/80-percent-of-divorces-are-filed-by.html


Well if they have a kid, the dude probably out working way more, stay at home mom would volunteer is my guess.
 
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