This is why I say unless dude beating their asses, they should just stay with their husbands at that point.
No nikka chasing after a woman with 5 kids unless he’s really down bad even if he got 5 of his own.
She might be a great person too.. but thats a lot of feeding, phone calls are probably trash, she probably always got some sort of dramatic ass issue either from the kids or the baby daddy/s, probably always low on money, low on time, 5 chances that a kid won’t like your ass, etc.
You literally the 6th or 7th most important nikka in her life at that point at least

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