So a chick calls my work phone out of the blue...

[luckyse7enz]

but i know some dude who REALLY don't give a fukk about having that label and it actually works to their favor and here's why. see if you carry yourself like that and people already know what you're about, if the chick lets you fukk,, she's less likely to try the silly games on you to make you look like the bad guy cause to other people she'll look way more stupid. everyone already knows what you're about so they'll think "well she was looking for trouble anyway" and she knows that. so she'd rather end things cool and amicably in most cases (and be on the low).

but not everyone is built for that (i'm not for instance) so you gotta know yourself first.

Probably the best way to play it. Just go into it flaws out and just make it so it's blatantly obvious that you're not trying to be exclusive. Make her a low priority and let it be known.

Been on that tip ever since my ex moved and I started dating again: Just being honest from the jump. You'd be so surprised how many chicks are just desperate for one-onone attention from a dude. I've seriously just told some "Well, I'm a jerk/a$$hole/awful human being/no different from any other guy (to be honest)"...

...and if they want you that bad, they'll laugh that off and still give it up no matter how much you blatantly refuse to take them seriously. It's almost sad sometimes, but hey...

 

[Turbulent]

Probably the best way to play it. Just go into it flaws out and just make it so it's blatantly obvious that you're not trying to be exclusive. Make her a low priority and let it be known.

Been on that tip ever since my ex moved and I started dating again: Just being honest from the jump. You'd be so surprised how many chicks are just desperate for one-onone attention from a dude. I've seriously just told some "Well, I'm a jerk/a$$hole/awful human being/no different from any other guy (to be honest)"...

...and if they want you that bad, they'll laugh that off and still give it up no matter how much you blatantly refuse to take them seriously. It's almost sad sometimes, but hey...

and it's hard to get there for some of us guys. to keep it 100.

and it's because of the inner bytch in us. like we want to have our cke and eat it too. we get the urge to get much p*ssy but at the same time we don't want the jerk/a$$hole label. kinda like hoes in a weird way, lol.

meanwhile the girls will respect the real dude the most. plus being real doesn't necessarely mean being an a$$hole. if being an a$$hole is not you then don't try to fake rudeness or cruelty. being real means staying true to who you are, to who you truly feel like being and also being true about your motives and intentions (which doesn't mean you can't be a diplomat about it)

but i don't mean to derail the thread. this should go in the other gems for men thread.

 

[big bun]

her: they all by the same baby daddy, before you go thinking i'm a hoe or something.

She's a hoe.