So basically woman talk all that single and celibate shyt until a rich nikka hit them DMs

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So now y’all are mad because women are being selective about who they smash, instead of smashing every “nice guy” that comes along.

Y’all are ridiculous sometimes.


There are plenty of average women getting overlooked everyday because they aren’t super pretty, don’t wear makeup or have the right style, have average bodies, etc. And they certainly aren’t being chosen by successful or average guys.



A woman with above average looks attracted an above average man?! :whoo:


It's expected women are to be selective, everyone is selective. But this was in bad taste and bragging. Maybe I'm overreacting, should all women wait until a man makes $200k+ to finally choose him?




There's also too many variables to just say she was waiting for the right one. A multimillionaire doesn't automatically mean the right one, those dudes can cheat and be scumbags too.
 
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It's expected women are to be selective, everyone is selective. But this was in bad taste and bragging. Maybe I'm overreacting, should all women wait until a man makes $200k+ to finally choose him?




There's also too many variables to just say she was waiting for the right one. A multimillionaire doesn't automatically mean the right one, those dudes can cheat and be scumbags too.

Being a millionaire is a valid reason to talk to him, and see what he’s about, just like a man being attractive to them. Women aren’t being approached, and choosing based on a man being a gentleman. You have to have something to interest them. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but that’s how it is. Besides, most men are just trying to smash anyway. Women know. So you expect them to give any random guy the opportunity to smash and dash, while also expecting them to know which ones are the good ones? Women are going to be more attracted to men with resources, and or looks.

And no, every woman can’t wait for the 6 figure earner, but when one comes along, they’re going to take the opportunity. In the meantime, if they aren’t feeling like dating, then yeah, you have to be exceptional.
 

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It's expected women are to be selective, everyone is selective. But this was in bad taste and bragging. Maybe I'm overreacting, should all women wait until a man makes $200k+ to finally choose him?




There's also too many variables to just say she was waiting for the right one. A multimillionaire doesn't automatically mean the right one, those dudes can cheat and be scumbags too.
How is she bragging?

When Becky posts her engagement to a professional baseball player, hockey player, football player, etc is society saying that she’s bragging?


The girl just posted something cute and funny. “Oh I thought I’d be alone forever until you came into my life”.

Y’all make this stuff way deeper than it needs to be. It’s actually weird AF.


In one breath women are supposed to want to married as soon as possible, and should choose a man who can provide, because if you get knocked up by a man with nothing and you end up begging, people will tell you that you “should’ve chosen better”.


So a beautiful (I presume childless) young woman is approached by a successful young man, and he proposes.

What exactly is the issue? She was supposed to be locked in with one of the TSA agents before the NFL player even got to her? :dead:
 

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Being a millionaire is a valid reason to talk to him, and see what he’s about, just like a man being attractive to them. Women aren’t being approached, and choosing based on a man being a gentleman. You have to have something to interest them. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but that’s how it is. Besides, most men are just trying to smash anyway. Women know. So you expect them to give any random guy the opportunity to smash and dash, while also expecting them to know which ones are the good ones? Women are going to be more attracted to men with resources, and or looks.

And no, every woman can’t wait for the 6 figure earner, but when one comes along, they’re going to take the opportunity. In the meantime, if they aren’t feeling like dating, then yeah, you have to be exceptional.

Yeah but would she have spoken to him before he was millionaire or if that at all? Again it's just in bad taste that y'all are ignoring.



How is she bragging?

When Becky posts her engagement to a professional baseball player, hockey player, football player, etc is society saying that she’s bragging?


The girl just posted something cute and funny. “Oh I thought I’d be alone forever until you came into my life”.

Y’all make this stuff way deeper than it needs to be. It’s actually weird AF.


In one breath women are supposed to want to married as soon as possible, and should choose a man who can provide, because if you get knocked up by a man with nothing and you end up begging, people will tell you that you “should’ve chosen better”.


So a beautiful (I presume childless) young woman is approached by a successful young man, and he proposes.

What exactly is the issue? She was supposed to be locked in with one of the TSA agents before the NFL player even got to her? :dead:


Yes that's bragging. The thread premise would have been exactly the same if she was white. And no one is saying she should've married a broke man, but she probably skipped out on a lot of hard working mean earning a decent $75k salary. Those guys have to wait, but a multimillionaire steps in and that rule is thrown out the window.




Here's a good question for y'all though; What's the difference between a gold digger and a woman looking for financial stability?:jbhmm:
 

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Yeah but would she have spoken to him before he was millionaire or if that at all? Again it's just in bad taste that y'all are ignoring.






Yes that's bragging. The thread premise would have been exactly the same if she was white. And no one is saying she should've married a broke man, but she probably skipped out on a lot of hard working mean earning a decent $75k salary. Those guys have to wait, but a multimillionaire steps in and that rule is thrown out the window.




Here's a good question for y'all though; What's the difference between a gold digger and a woman looking for financial stability?:jbhmm:
And babe guess what? There were plenty of regular looking girls who were clamoring for the $75k salary guys who thought they could do better than them average broads.


Know what the difference is?
This girl held out and got the millionaire.



I don’t know why this is so hard for folks to understand. Life isn’t fair.

If as a woman you know that the main thing ppl chase about us is beauty and youth and you have both, YES, on a superficial level you can trade that for the main thing ppl chase in men: provision/money.


We did not make the rules to the game.
Now, there are foolish women who think they are finer than they are or think they have more game than they actually do, and they strike out. Plenty of those women around. And YOUR MESSAGE should be directed at them.


THIS girl, however, clearly qualified for this man. Because not only did he choose to date her, he put a ring on it.


Again, you would have a point if he pumped and dumped her, but he didn’t.


This is a tale as old as time. Pretty face attracts successful man. Pretty face with a nice personality gets locked down by said successful man.

For yeeeeears y’all were screaming about men “exercising options”.

Ok.



You forget that when ladies are young and pretty, that is the time that we are supposed to exercise options.

You get money- you get to choose from a bunch of women.
You luck out in the genetic gene pool and your parents gave you a pretty face- you get to choose from all of the guys who are attracted to you.


Men and women who have what the opposite sex wants get to CHOOSE.


This is what a lot of y’all miss.
That pretty girl has everyone from bums to athletes trying to get her attention.

Just like that successful engineer, doctor, entrepreneur, athlete, etc.

She got to choose just like all those men get to choose.


Y’all got an issue when a woman gets to exercise her options…



Yes, she could’ve dated a guy making $75k.
And the guy making $75k could’ve paid attention to the average/cute but not as pretty colleague who is always smiling in his face and offering to help him with his reports.


Just because you might have access to someone doesn’t mean you have to be together.

He saw a pretty girl online and said “:ehh: lemme see what she’s about”.
If it wasn’t her it would be some other pretty girl who you don’t know and would have never known existed :deadrose:
 

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Money isn't everything, and looks aren't everything. So when you see couples moving and shaking based on these things it's something where I have no sympathy for however it turns out 5-6 years into the future for either of these people, or people like them. That being said, good luck. 👍
 

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When Tinder first was popping like 10 years ago (my gawd :wow:) I was basically staying between the beach and airport.. I would catch soo many Flight attendants or trainees staying around airport.. You supposed to let them offer that shyt forreal.. Only got hooked up with one at the time and we still cool to this day but she quit to be a nurse :mjcry: :mjlol:
Exactly. That’s like a woman asking you for cash after the first fukking date :mjlol:
 

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Wait...don't ya'll want women to "choose better" instead of sleeping around?

Just from the video it looks like she held out for a "better" option. I don't see the problem.

Oh wait, ya'll don't really want women to choose better. Ya'll want women to be stupid so you can shame them for their choices so that you have leverage to get them to deal with you. Lol

Makes perfect sense, carry on.
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I'm just happy breh got him a sister. :salute:

Who the fukk cares
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Money isn't everything, and looks aren't everything. So when you see couples moving and shaking based on these things it's something where I have no sympathy for however it turns out 5-6 years into the future for either of these people, or people like them. That being said, good luck. 👍
Yep. And a lot of them crash and burn. :ehh:

But they chose each other. That’s why I don’t get why brehs are bothered. They hate that the pretty girl chose the rich guy, as if he didn’t initiate it.

Everybody gotta choose someone and they chose each other. Now they’re off the board. Whatever happens happens.

Although it seems they are still married with kids, so I guess they chose correctly?

 
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Yeah but would she have spoken to him before he was millionaire or if that at all? Again it's just in bad taste that y'all are ignoring.






Yes that's bragging. The thread premise would have been exactly the same if she was white. And no one is saying she should've married a broke man, but she probably skipped out on a lot of hard working mean earning a decent $75k salary. Those guys have to wait, but a multimillionaire steps in and that rule is thrown out the window.




Here's a good question for y'all though; What's the difference between a gold digger and a woman looking for financial stability?:jbhmm:

Nobody is entitled to anyone. First of all, you’re assuming every woman is getting approached frequently, which is not the case. To have an opportunity with a 6 figure man is rare depending on her lifestyle, so she’s going to at least see where it goes. Just because a man is hard working, doesn’t mean they were compatible, or she was attracted to him. There needs to be something about you that will make that woman want to get to know you better, and attraction rarely comes from nothing. A hardworking man can still play women, or cheat.

There are men out there willing to spend. If she wants a certain lifestyle, and you can’t provide it, she’s not for you. Other women will be for you. But just know, if you’re not bringing looks, or money to the table, you’re most likely going to have to settle for an average, to below average looking woman. You want a woman to not care about looks, or money, knowing most men are not pursuing women we don’t find attractive, just because she might have a good heart. Women aren’t rejecting men they find attractive with good personalities just because he makes $70K. They reject men they aren’t attracted to for that, and if she’s not into dating at the moment, and you’re not attractive to her, she’s not going to get to know you. Women can get sex easily whenever they want, so they don’t look at men and think, “Gee, I don’t know when I’ll have the opportunity to have sex again, so let me get some dikk from this ugly guy because he’s nice. Maybe I’ll develop feelings from having some conversations, and forget he’s ugly.”
 
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