Doobie Doo
Veteran
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I see a lot of my young fellas are hitting a wall dating so let uncle Al give you all a dating hack .
When u meet a girl that u actually like take her to BREAKFAST on the first date and I mean breakfast breakfast not brunch. Brunch is a cheat, all girls love brunch and they’ll go on a brunch date even if they dont like you
, take her to an early 8:30 am breakfast I’ll tell you why.
First of all it will let you know her level of interest. A girl either really has to love breakfast or really have to like you to wake up and make it to a 8:30 breakfast date. Plus women secretly like early risers. They won’t admit it but they appreciate a man who gets up early and starts being productive.
2. You get to see her level of sensibility, because what’s appropriate breakfast date attire ?? Does she show up club ready or does she come cute and causal?? You typically getter a more realistic aesthetic in the morning, people look more like themselves in the morning as opposed to having all day to get ready. Less is more , if she shows up minimal makeup cute to breakfast chances are she’s really cute. But if she shows up over the top dressed and a full face for bacon eggs, she may be trying to hide something
. Ladies this is your time to put on that cute Nike tech outfit that you never wear to the gym , and pretty running shoes you never run in , put your hair in a ponytail or a dad hat and throw on a little lip gloss and eye liner and be comfortable on a date for a change. It’s a win win for everybody, and won’t take you nearly as long to get dressed
3. Breakfast isn’t that expensive, so if you’re balling on a budget you typically can get out of a good breakfast place for anywhere between $25-$40 maybe cheaper .
4. And no Waffle House and IHOP don’t count. Try to find a something local, like a diner or breakfast kitchen , expertise in finding good local eateries will score you big points. Stay away from big chains if possible
5. You get to see a more natural temperament, if she’s not a morning person and she’s in a bad mood , that’s a sign she’s not that into you.
. If she likes you, she’ll be more concerned with getting to know you than thinking about being slightly inconvenienced having to wake up early . Plus conversation is harder in the morning because you’re still hazy. If y’all can have a good meaningful conversation at 8 in the morning that’s a possible sign of chemistry .
6. You still have the whole day, so if breakfast goes well and she’s down to do something else it’s not an awkward ask because it’s the middle of the day. Unlike a night date where the only place to go is her house or yours . You can avoid that by going to do something else publicly and extending the date
7. Having a breakfast date subconsciously takes naughty business of the table. So it’s much less pressure, it gives the impression that you’re not thinking about S E GG S and that you actually just want to spend some time, which is what the first date should be. And chances are she’s rarely if ever had actual breakfast for a first date . So points for you for being different .
8. Also if y’all don’t hit it off, your whole day isn’t wasted and you’ve gotten it out of the way and can find something else to do instead of going home at night mad you wasted your time.
9. And finally you get to witness something very important. You get to see if she eats sugar in her grits. And if she does then you know she’s not the one and you don’t deserve that kind of chaos in your life
Happy Dating Spartans
I see a lot of my young fellas are hitting a wall dating so let uncle Al give you all a dating hack .
When u meet a girl that u actually like take her to BREAKFAST on the first date and I mean breakfast breakfast not brunch. Brunch is a cheat, all girls love brunch and they’ll go on a brunch date even if they dont like you
First of all it will let you know her level of interest. A girl either really has to love breakfast or really have to like you to wake up and make it to a 8:30 breakfast date. Plus women secretly like early risers. They won’t admit it but they appreciate a man who gets up early and starts being productive.
2. You get to see her level of sensibility, because what’s appropriate breakfast date attire ?? Does she show up club ready or does she come cute and causal?? You typically getter a more realistic aesthetic in the morning, people look more like themselves in the morning as opposed to having all day to get ready. Less is more , if she shows up minimal makeup cute to breakfast chances are she’s really cute. But if she shows up over the top dressed and a full face for bacon eggs, she may be trying to hide something
3. Breakfast isn’t that expensive, so if you’re balling on a budget you typically can get out of a good breakfast place for anywhere between $25-$40 maybe cheaper .
4. And no Waffle House and IHOP don’t count. Try to find a something local, like a diner or breakfast kitchen , expertise in finding good local eateries will score you big points. Stay away from big chains if possible
5. You get to see a more natural temperament, if she’s not a morning person and she’s in a bad mood , that’s a sign she’s not that into you.
6. You still have the whole day, so if breakfast goes well and she’s down to do something else it’s not an awkward ask because it’s the middle of the day. Unlike a night date where the only place to go is her house or yours . You can avoid that by going to do something else publicly and extending the date
7. Having a breakfast date subconsciously takes naughty business of the table. So it’s much less pressure, it gives the impression that you’re not thinking about S E GG S and that you actually just want to spend some time, which is what the first date should be. And chances are she’s rarely if ever had actual breakfast for a first date . So points for you for being different .
8. Also if y’all don’t hit it off, your whole day isn’t wasted and you’ve gotten it out of the way and can find something else to do instead of going home at night mad you wasted your time.
9. And finally you get to witness something very important. You get to see if she eats sugar in her grits. And if she does then you know she’s not the one and you don’t deserve that kind of chaos in your life
Happy Dating Spartans
