So brehs......i'm getting a divorce
- Thread starter Steve Piffler
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gldnone913
Integrity and Consistency
at this getting stickied.....I'll give the rundown when I get back to my desk...
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...
"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."
shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:
me: i wanna talk to you...
her:
*not this shyt again*me:
this relationship is progressively getting worse, and we either need to take major steps to fix it or go our separate ways.her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me:
i never said that i was perfect. i believe that we have a major disconnect and it either needs to be fixed or we should get a divorce.her:
me: *
on the inside* i guess there's no more to talk about then.her:
me: *
on the inside* aaight then....*goes in the livingroom to watch tv*her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*
me:
i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...
detroitwalt
Superstar
IN
Damn sorry to hear that breh. You don't think it can be saved? Do you want to save it?
Born2BKing
Veteran
that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...
"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."
shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:
me: i wanna talk to you...
her:
me:
her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me:
her:
me: *
her:
me: *
her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*
me:
i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...
Yeah you share her breh but it happens to the best of us. It was hard for me to break up with a chick I had been with for 4 years, so I can imagine it is going to be tough on you. Goodluck breh
Wow How Cold
She's Def Seeing Someone
Even If She Ain Sleeping With Dude She Definitly Has A Vested Interest In Someone Else
13 Years And A Son And She Aint Even Flinching, Got Damn Must Be Rough
She's Def Seeing Someone
Even If She Ain Sleeping With Dude She Definitly Has A Vested Interest In Someone Else
13 Years And A Son And She Aint Even Flinching, Got Damn Must Be Rough
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
IN
Damn sorry to hear that breh. You don't think it can be saved? Do you want to save it?
nah and nah.
when a woman loses interest in you for whatever reason, the relationship is dead. even if you try to get it back, it will never be the same. better to cut your losses and KIM...
*but :
anyway*
JoseLuisGotcha
Aka Allhiphopsux
best case scenario for sharing is that you may be sharing that girl but maybe just emotionally cheating....like she could be respecting the relationship enough to have a guy around but not smashing and just hanging out with him and texting and talking and doing the things you dont do now.....she is probably giving him the hope that ya'll will be seperated he's waiting for the official word ...
also she has help.....she has to be talking to someone so best believe her best friend or maybe she got a new friend that put a bug in her ear either way she is texting someone either a girlfriend or the other guy
also she has help.....she has to be talking to someone so best believe her best friend or maybe she got a new friend that put a bug in her ear either way she is texting someone either a girlfriend or the other guy
detroitwalt
Superstar
nah and nah.
when a woman loses interest in you for whatever reason, the relationship is dead. even if you try to get it back, it will never be the same. better to cut your losses and KIM...
*but :
nah and nah.
when a woman loses interest in you for whatever reason, the relationship is dead. even if you try to get it back, it will never be the same. better to cut your losses and KIM...
*but :
you have to play it cool brah
i just walked away from my ex for the 2nd time and for good
Don't even try to fix shyt-
You will make back any money she takes and have a better life than her in the future
just act like u dont care
gldnone913
Integrity and Consistency
that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...
"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."
shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:
me: i wanna talk to you...
her:
me:
her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me:
her:
me: *
her:
me: *
her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*
me:
i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...
damn
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
nah and nah.
when a woman loses interest in you for whatever reason, the relationship is dead. even if you try to get it back, it will never be the same. better to cut your losses and KIM...
*but :
Breh lawyer up ASAP, don't let her bleed U out, don't trust anything she does or says from this point on
Nick Barnes
All Star
Damn homie
sounds rough man, best of luck to you.
one thing i can say though- once you start throwing that "divorce" talk around you gotta go thru w it. once it's in her head that you're already thinking about it she's just gonna feel more justified about any dirt she has or will do going forward. just end it now. don't go back to trying to fix things because it definitely sounds over.
one thing i can say though- once you start throwing that "divorce" talk around you gotta go thru w it. once it's in her head that you're already thinking about it she's just gonna feel more justified about any dirt she has or will do going forward. just end it now. don't go back to trying to fix things because it definitely sounds over.