So brehs......i'm getting a divorce

[sixsixtwo]

Whatever you do, DO NOT move out of the house..

If you need, hit me on the PM -- I can send you some links to try to mitigate the oncoming damage..

 

[concise]

I still can't believe that convo

You came in already completely dejected, no hope, no optimism, no searching in those questions (only simple statements), no thinking forward, no will.

 

[Steve Piffler]

Wait...didn't i read you got head from a stripper in vegas a few months back? sounds like you were BOTH checked out. it's probably best for your kids to not having to cheating parents setting a bad example for them...so good for you for cutting your losses and moving on.

yes and no. didn't get head, she just licked my dikk a couple of times . and yes, shyt was already sour with us anyway, so i said fukk it... there is not a doubt in my mind that if shyt was sweet between us at the time, i would have gave that chick in vegas the face...

but, it is what it is...

 

[MikelArteta]

only thing i care about in that sentence is my kid. she can have the house, the car, and everything in it. i can buy new shyt.

Get a lawyer ASAP

Take your money out of any hour accounts, start liquidating your assets

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...

"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."


shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:

me: i wanna talk to you...
her: *not this shyt again*
me: this relationship is progressively getting worse, and we either need to take major steps to fix it or go our separate ways.
her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me: i never said that i was perfect. i believe that we have a major disconnect and it either needs to be fixed or we should get a divorce.
her:
me: * on the inside* i guess there's no more to talk about then.
her:
me: * on the inside* aaight then....*goes in the livingroom to watch tv*
her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*

me:

i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...

yall can work it out...

any process in environment changed?

are you treating her, how you want to be treated?

 

[Steve Piffler]

This nikka cheated on and hit his wife ANd then he hit her with the ultimatum for divorce.

Stop treating grown men like angels.

i'm not an angel. but at the same time, if she had issues, she should have addressed them when they happened. don't try to bring up old shyt when i'm addressing something that's happening now. that's a cop out....

but i'm clearly

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

yes and no. didn't get head, she just licked my dikk a couple of times . and yes, shyt was already sour with us anyway, so i said fukk it... there is not a doubt in my mind that if shyt was sweet between us at the time, i would have gave that chick in vegas the face...

but, it is what it is...

fukk it. YOLO

Just imagine if you stayed a pious and faithful man.

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[Ohene]

they stickied this and all that

 

[DaChampIsHere]

i'm not an angel. but at the same time, if she had issues, she should have addressed them when they happened. don't try to bring up old shyt when i'm addressing something that's happening now. that's a cop out....
but i'm clearly

Breh, women don't work that way. For men it's that easy. For women, they hold on to that shyt for a while, especially when it's their dude who does it.

 

[concise]

i'm not an angel. but at the same time, if she had issues, she should have addressed them when they happened. don't try to bring up old shyt when i'm addressing something that's happening now. that's a cop out....

but i'm clearly

What if they were never addressed at all? They just sit? Not every injury, mental or physical, gets better on its own.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Aw really Mr. Piffler?

 

[MMS]

white or black girl

 

[Malta]

When women turn cold they go ice age, it's amazing to see the change and how easily they can just detach from you.

 

[PewPew]

How could she be so Dr.Evil

 

[Anothergirl]

yes and no. didn't get head, she just licked my dikk a couple of times . and yes, shyt was already sour with us anyway, so i said fukk it... there is not a doubt in my mind that if shyt was sweet between us at the time, i would have gave that chick in vegas the face...

but, it is what it is...

ah well ...divorce doesn't always equal financial ruin for men. My sis got divorced from her husband a lil over a year a year ago . she gave him the house and the court ordered spousal support from her for a few months untill he was able to get on his feet.