Don't ruin this alias, make another name B
So brehs......i'm getting a divorce
- Thread starter Steve Piffler
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Don't ruin this alias, make another name B
Mr. Freeze
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I hope you learned your lesson about marriage. Attaching yourself to someone that can drastically change at an instant without a moment's notice just isn't wise. Sometimes we outgrow relationships kinda hard to do when you lock yourself in a binding legal contract that says you'll either stay or pay.
marriage isn't practical in this day and age. We have too much access to too many people. You hit a rough patch and some nikka on Twitter or Facebook is all in your woman's ear and shyt happens.
in the old days when people weren't so connected to each other you worked shyt out but these days if you fukk up there's hundreds of nikkas waiting in the wings to capitalize.
on top of all that we live in an instant gratification based society where everyone wants it and wants it now. If something looks appealing to ya girl and you fukk up with the desire for instant gratification and the level of connection she has she could be fukking somebody else that same day even if she later regrets it things can happen so fast.
marriage isn't practical in this day and age. We have too much access to too many people. You hit a rough patch and some nikka on Twitter or Facebook is all in your woman's ear and shyt happens.
in the old days when people weren't so connected to each other you worked shyt out but these days if you fukk up there's hundreds of nikkas waiting in the wings to capitalize.
on top of all that we live in an instant gratification based society where everyone wants it and wants it now. If something looks appealing to ya girl and you fukk up with the desire for instant gratification and the level of connection she has she could be fukking somebody else that same day even if she later regrets it things can happen so fast.
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LMAO @ the up, 
to the GOAT @His_Excellence_Reincar
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that link pretty much sums up why we are getting a divorce...
"...shyt ain't been right for a while now, and it's getting more and more distant as time goes by. there is almost no affection anymore, we only have sex like once a week (maybe), she is ALWAYS staring at her phone (nikka, and i mean ALWAYS), we never say i love you anymore, and she is generally just not checked in anymore. and because of that fact, i have checked out too. i don't try to initiate sex, i don't kiss or hug her when i come home or before i go to sleep or leave for work, i don't say anything to her unless she asks me a question, i don't call or text her throughout the day, and i just keep to myself. but somehow, she doesn't seem the least bit concerned. i look at her demeaner, and she seems to be just fine. i have a lot of years, a son, and a ton of money invested in this relationship, but i'm almost ready to say fukk it and throw the towel in. shyt is tearing me up, but 13 years is a LONG time to be with someone, and it's hard to just "let it go"...."
shyt was just unbearable at home. we got to the point where we were just passing ships in the night. i got tired of it, and decided to talk to her about it. This is how it went, pretty much:
me: i wanna talk to you...
her:*not this shyt again*
me:this relationship is progressively getting worse, and we either need to take major steps to fix it or go our separate ways.
her: so you think that the reason that our relationship is bad because of just me? You ain't perfect, you know...
me:i never said that i was perfect. i believe that we have a major disconnect and it either needs to be fixed or we should get a divorce.
her:
me: *on the inside* i guess there's no more to talk about then.
her:
me: *on the inside* aaight then....*goes in the livingroom to watch tv*
her: *sits on the opposite couch from me*
me:
i think i share that girl, brehs....as much as i hate to admit it...
Is it oochie wally or one mic?
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Huellz Santana
Shocking
wait... didn't dude work it out with her? im too lazy to read this thread
AZBeauty
Stop lyin' nicca.
Ole fake ass Christian. SMH 
In The other thread he's talking about his perfect marriage to a single mom.
Like I said is it oochie wally or one mic
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The OP or the dude who upped the thread out of pure spiteOle fake ass Christian. SMH
Where is spite a virtue in the Bible, I wanna see the verses
AZBeauty
Stop lyin' nicca.
Reincar, the supposed Christian now.
Steve Piffler
I got them CERTS
is this supposed to be an exposal? 
i ain't hiding from any of this. it's part of being married. this was the down time in my relationship. we up now, so none of this is a big deal anymore. you are still broke and lonely, and that won't change until you stop being a bytch....
Homie has a real complex. What would his parish think
yeahisaidit
All Star
i ain't hiding from any of this. it's part of being married. this was the down time in my relationship. we up now, so none of this is a big deal anymore. you are still broke and lonely, and that won't change until you stop being a bytch....
Glad you two were able to work thru things.