So, how long have you been single?

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4yrs and counting. All i do is have fun with these women. No jealousy or stress. Still get the benefits of a relationship without the negative elements. The only bad thing is sex isnt on demand whenever but you take the good with the bad.

At this time im not interested in a relationship so i let that be known from jump. I only met one woman that made me want to take things further but she wasnt fukking with me.
 

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:damn:

yall ever get bored? :ehh:

tired of seeing couples? :ehh:

ever want a gf? :ehh:

to be honest, i think i've forgotten how to even go about getting a girlfriend. that's not to say i haven't dated women within that time but i haven't had a girlfriend in a couple of years. i've become slightly less patient with the whole courting process because i haven't had to court women in order to get sex from them in a while. that's one of the downsides to being a musician. sure, you get a lot of access to p*ssy but it changes your perspective a little bit. there's that fact and i don't want to get a girlfriend just so i can have a girlfriend because i'd probably be more inclined to cheat (which i don't want to do). i feel like those are the options that have been presented to me over the past couple of years. it's not like there hasn't been any candidates or women i've considered making my girlfriends. but, i've felt indifferent about making them my girlfriends. it like, yeah they look good but outside of that i'm not really feeling them and there's not much there. so, there's been a problem with the quality of women i've been running into ever since the quantity has gone up. when i do happen to run into a woman of some sort of quality, i usually date them.

yeah, occasionally i do get bored seeing couples but i don't hate on them at all. it's good to see people connect and link up and enjoy themselves and (hopefully) enjoy a loving relationship.

i just figure, when it's my time, i'll get what i need. i don't need a girlfriend at the moment hence why i don't have one...
 

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good responses :obama:

For me, I feel like I haven't met any girls that I'd want to take serious, so I'm just out here living...I know I make a lot of simp threads and shyt, but yall made me realize its no point to chase women and seek a relationship. If it happens, it happens :manny:
 
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I have a gf but its still new and not that serious. Not really sure if Id settle down with her anyway. Last serious relationship I had ended February 2012. The chick is knocked up and engaged to her new dude. She lives in another country now so its whatever.


I think if I was in a serious relationship i would be more focused in achieving my goals instead of chasing every piece of ass. But I kind of like the excitement of the chase, the excitement of being with a new women, and my standards are incredibly high. I need a chick thats as fun to be around with as she is good looking.
 

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I have a gf but its still new and not that serious. Not really sure if Id settle down with her anyway. Last serious relationship I had ended February 2011. The chick is knocked up and engaged to her new dude. She lives in another country now so its whatever.


I think if I was in a serious relationship i would be more focused in achieving my goals instead of chasing every piece of ass. But I kind of like the excitement of the chase, the excitement of being with a new women, and my standards are incredibly high. I need a chick thats as fun to be around with as she is good looking.

AGREED with bolded in 2nd graf

BUT:

"I think if I was in a serious relationship i would be more focused in achieving my goals"

I feel as though I do better single...I sometimes put too much into a relationship and invest and lose sight of my own goals :yeshrug:
 

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AGREED with bolded in 2nd graf

BUT:

"I think if I was in a serious relationship i would be more focused in achieving my goals"

I feel as though I do better single...I sometimes put too much into a relationship and invest and lose sight of my own goals :yeshrug:

I am the opposite. When I am single, it is easy for me to get distracted on a million things and side tracked from my personal goals. When I am in a relationship, that person helps me focus and I am typically able to achieve more due to the support.
 

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I am the opposite. When I am single, it is easy for me to get distracted on a million things and side tracked from my personal goals. When I am in a relationship, that person helps me focus and I am typically able to achieve more due to the support.

my ex was lazy and unmotivated so maybe that's why :ehh:

but honestly, my pawg had my focused on getting my gear up, eating better, decking out my apartment and more, so maybe if i stayed with her longer, i'd be still on that tip
 

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my ex was lazy and unmotivated so maybe that's why :ehh:

but honestly, my pawg had my focused on getting my gear up, eating better, decking out my apartment and more, so maybe if i stayed with her longer, i'd be still on that tip


Aww, yea she was a positive influence. I love relationships like that. They make you better which is always the goal.
 

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5 years.....:win:

I don't see myself having a girlfriend for a long time......or possibly ever again honestly.
 
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