Giving her too much credit. She may have grown in some respects, however, she is still fresh off having a baby. That wasn't a mistake, that
was negligence. Add in typical 19 year old drama AND a kid? Nah, he can find women who didn't become a statistic at 16.
The alternative is him fukking with that girl, and possibly getting her feelings caught in it, when he won't go that far. No sense doing that to a single
mother.
Clearly by him posting a thread about it, he's not in the maturity level to date her, you're right and that's not fair. But you guys and all this hyperbole and harsh judgments like you know the damn girl. So, after 3 years, she's not allowed to date? Personally, I wouldn't have had a baby at 16, but I have a friend that did and it didn't make her any less of a person. It could have happened to ANY of us if we slipped up at that age, it's just some people take the easy way out, and others don't.
I have no harsh judgments against this girl. I have seen this scenario play out with girls who were pretty much asking for it, and girls who simply had







