So I had to throw this chick in the bushes but @Yup has some qualms with it

[Software]

HE invited HER over...breh brought that L upon himself

Nah she asked to come over everytime

 

[Turbulent]

she's making out with you, letting you suck on the titties but not fukking knowing you want to fukk? she's a tease. if your needs weren't being met you shouldn't be spending time and energy on her. now maybe you could have been a little more smooth in the way you kicked her out. that might be why you felt a little sad. next time maybe just tell her "i don't think we want the same thing. maybe we should just cool it down. anyway i gotta _______ (insert some activity/task you need to do) so how about we just call it a night." walk her to the door. you keep your dignity while still keeping your cool and saving your time. anyway, what's done is done and if that's how you felt then

 

[Prynce]

You did the right thing breh

#FDB

 

[Mr Rager]

Nah she asked to come over everytime

Ah well that's a whole different story then

 

[Software]

Because she implied that she wanted to be in a relationship then said it wasn't a good time.

shyt has me dead everytime I read this post

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

You're a cold blooded mf! Like can't you just treat her like a homie and actually chill. Ask her about deeper subjects, life in general, sports, what's going on in the world. That's mighty fast for sex, don't ya think? She's not a robot, and can't just switch them on/off Really disappointed

 

[EndDomination]

OP made the right decision. If you've made your intentions clear and she's still not going for it; bushes status. She'd probably keep stringing you along. I would've given it one more date to try and smash, but if not I would've dropped her.

 

[Software]

You're a cold blooded mf! Like can't you just treat her like a homie and actually chill. Ask her about deeper subjects, life in general, sports, what's going on in the world. That's mighty fast for sex, don't ya think? She's not a robot, and can't just switch them on/off Really disappointed

She asked to be friends but I told her" I got enough friends "

 

[Yup]

She asked to be friends but I told her" I got enough friends "

So guys and girls cannot interact outside of sex? You cant be with a girl you like without it leading to sex? Is this is how people date nowadays smh. But you did the right thing by bushing her though. She's better off. I don't understand this expectation that someone has to sleep with you.

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

So guys and girls cannot interact outside of sex?

That's what I'm saying........could have potentially been a great friend to op(plus how cold he was towards her) Sex never should have been bought up, should have tried befriending the person(instead of looking for a quick lay)

 

[Yup]

That's what I'm saying........could have potentially been a great friend to op(plus how cold he was towards her) Sex never should have been bought up, should have tried befriending the person(instead of looking for a quick lay)

Thats why i laugh at guys who are lookibg for virginal girls. That would mean that girls would have to never date if dating leads with the expectation of sex. And we all know thats not going to happen.

 

[underwaterboogiebaby]

It's like a one track mind, with some of them. Can't let your guard down for nothing(excuse the double neg)

 

[Software]

Thats why i laugh at guys who are lookibg for virginal girls. That would mean that girls would have to never date if dating leads with the expectation of sex. And we all know thats not going to happen.

It's like a one track mind, with some of them. Can't let your guard down for nothing(excuse the double neg)

 

[CoochieMane]

Oh man...so you are mad that she didnt let you use her for sex to kick her to the curb when she has fulfilled her purpose. Lol
...jokes on you. I wish more girls became like this instead of the sexscapade people engage in today.

then why the fuk was she spending the night at his house

 

[Action Mike]

You did right OP. Yall on two different pages and you both kept it straight up. I see no problems here.

No problems at all.