So I had to throw this chick in the bushes but @Yup has some qualms with it

[Yup]

Really? Reading his post. He said he could give a relationship a try, but than she said it's a bad time right now I'm leaving in two months. . That ho is playing. She wouldn't be spending the night at all if she wanted a relationship. She wouldn't let it get to that point. Alot of these broads are stupid, but not that dumb. She is not spending the night or hanging at your house and not expecting to expect to hit hat ass.

NOT. The onus is on guys to make their intentions clear. Many won't because they are trying to finesse you in getting what they want. If it means lying or leading on than so be it. I am not about to read your mind.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Hahaha....slick.

 

[360dagod]

If a broad comes to the crib, I assume we fukking...
if she not about it, stay outside

 

[360dagod]

4th and goal and couldn't score the touchdown 4 times

..things that can make a grown man cry

 

[Address_Unknown]

How's does a grown man get a titty in his mouth and not seal the deal?

When she says 'No, stop' or doesn't go ahead and pull the drawers off cause she changed her mind all of a sudden.

There are women that love to give dudes a "taste" of what supposed to come, pull back and start exploiting dudes in their thirsty state since sex is like right there and apparently she down but she dangling that carrot while making dudes cop to all kinda shyt they hope they can swerve on after they bust a nut.

Been in situations like that and just took my dikk and leave. Ain't no piece of ass worth more than my peace of mind and chicks who all about that p*ssy ransom fukking with the wrong one.

 

[xoxodede]

how is that sad

Because I am SURE she liked him, but wanted to take her time. You already know SOME men get it and lose interest - she most likely wanted to make sure he wasn't one of them.

 

[Yup]

When she says 'No, stop' or doesn't go ahead and pull the drawers off cause she changed her mind all of a sudden.

There are women that love to give dudes a "taste" of what supposed to come, pull back and start exploiting dudes in their thirsty state since sex is like right there and apparently she down but she dangling that carrot while making dudes cop to all kinda shyt they hope they can swerve on after they bust a nut.

Been in situations like that and just took my dikk and leave. Ain't no piece of ass worth more than my peace of mind and chicks who all about that p*ssy ransom fukking with the wrong one.

Or you made stuff up in your mind as if she tried to lead you on. Like woman can't change their minds anymore?

 

[Yup]

And she didn't earn that shyt at all
We didn't have shyt in common and she fukkin loved spendin time with me
My attraction to her was purely physical

Yup that's what my older cousin (he in his 30s) told me when I told him about this shyt lol
He told me to keep it pushin and to go build up my roster so I don't get too invested in a single chick cuz they will use that shyt against you as leverage
That's some damn good advice when I think about it tho
I was like

Yet you were going to entertain a relationship with her after she said she had sex in a relationship

 

[Kenny West]

Wait you only tried to fukk/makeout the fourth time or naw?

If not that may be where you fukked up. I don't hide my dikk, I'm tryna hit even if it's the first night. But these days in general you're doa if you don't kiss or go for it on the 1st night.

 

[Yup]

And she didn't earn that shyt at all
We didn't have shyt in common and she fukkin loved spendin time with me
My attraction to her was purely physical

Yup that's what my older cousin (he in his 30s) told me when I told him about this shyt lol
He told me to keep it pushin and to go build up my roster so I don't get too invested in a single chick cuz they will use that shyt against you as leverage
That's some damn good advice when I think about it tho
I was like

Yet you were going to entertain a relationship with her after she said she had sex in a relationship

Funny how it works.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I can't conceive of a woman being that stupid by spending the night over a guys house and not expecting him to try to hit.

You know the Asian dude who burned down the house on live chat? Yeah people are that stupid. But I wouldn't even call it stupid. People just don't all roll the same. Just cause ya'll think someone's house is some secret sexual space doesn't mean that everyone thinks like that. Everyone knows people who have all kinds of folks in and out of their house and it's not a big deal to them. My point is don't assume someone knows want you want or what to expect. Dude was cool with the cuddle 3 or 4 times but now he switches up and she's suppose to know what he wants?

 

[Yup]

You know the Asian dude who burned down the house on live chat? Yeah people are that stupid. But I wouldn't even call it stupid. People just don't all roll the same. Just cause ya'll think someone's house is some secret sexual space doesn't mean that everyone thinks like that. Everyone knows people who have all kinds of folks in and out of their house and it's not a big deal to them. My point is don't assume someone knows want you want or what to expect. Dude was cool with the cuddle 3 or 4 times but now he switches up and she's suppose to know what he wants?

I would never assume that guy wants sex just cause he invited me over at his place. That he has an interest in me...sure. When people dont make their intentions known from jump then it creates resentment. But on what basis? A lot ish can go wrong by making assumptions.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I would never assume that guy wants sex just cause he invited me over at his place. That he has an interest in me...sure. When people dont make their intentions known from jump then it creates resentment. But on what basis? A lot ish can go wrong by making assumptions.

Right. In a perfect world that would be great but in all honesty it is what the vast majority want at the end of the day. I go into every situation assuming as such. If someone proves me wrong then it's a pleasant surprise which is very rare.

 

[Address_Unknown]

Or you made stuff up in your mind as if she tried to lead you on. Like woman can't change their minds anymore?

Not even, man. I've been in situations where shyt withered under the lights and she didn't want to press on. Understand me when I say I respect that since the mood,scenario and circumstances can change a chicks arousal real quick.

I'm talking about chicks who pull your hand towards they shyt while watching a movie, let you get your finger on and then later start talking about how they worried about the rent or got some other problem that they'd like you to throw money at when you about to go in on some exploitive shyt.

A normal man don't willingly look for that shyt but if your out here, single and chasing skirts like I do, you will meet this type of chick every now and then and got to deal with that shyt quickly and move on.

 

[Yup]

Right. In a perfect world that would be great but in all honesty it is what the vast majority want at the end of the day. I go into every situation assuming as such. If someone proves me wrong then it's a pleasant surprise which is very rare.

I am learning now. It is sad that, that is the world that we live in that people feel entitled to stuff like this. No wonder girls are getting started "early" when they are not ready for the responsibility that an 'adult' relationship consist of.