awkwardblackgirl
Shakara
i invested 4 days of texting back and forth and planning
i had to reply
Fine, but your reply was ineffective. You should have just asked her 'why?' instead of you telling her it wasn't a problem.
i invested 4 days of texting back and forth and planning
i had to reply

breh im not in houston where i can just go out and scoop up a female with quickness
its gonna take another 1 month for another round of recruitment![]()



Fine, but your reply was ineffective. You should have just asked her 'why?' instead of you telling her it wasn't a problem.

her= hey i cant make it tonight..something came up
me= no worries we can reschedule(deep down im like)
5 minutes gone by
me: i was looking forward to seeing you again (deep down in my burning soul i was![]()
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still no reply from her![]()
well i might be sharing ohh well
*deletes contact*
i should really go back to dating pawgs![]()
]its not that easy[/B] when your all dressed up
even went to a car wash
and got a haircut early today
thats already 40 dollars in the hole
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the hell are you talking about? If I was all dressed up and practically out the door and get a text like that, I would be pissed off. The fact you replied to her text like that shows you don't take yourself seriously. She wasted your time and money, and you basically told her it was okay.the hell are you talking about? If I was all dressed up and practically out the door and get a text like that, I would be pissed off. The fact you replied to her text like that shows you don't take yourself seriously. She wasted your time and money, and you basically told her it was okay.
i didnt reply to her..i mean i was busy and i couldnt make it
i dont think i did anything wrong to be honest
Disregard my comments in this thread. I thought she cancelled on you. 
Disregard my comments in this thread. I thought she cancelled on you.
Still, you're a jerk for doing that to her.![]()

@ the overthinkin of everything
i respectfully disagree with this advice. there is no need to ask her why she is canceling. if she felt like sharing why she is canceling she would have done so in the same text/convo. i don't feel like he'd get much from asking why. just saying "ok, it's cool" and actually believing it is better IMO because it leaves space for her to fix it if it was a legit excuse, to explain why if she feels like he deserves an explanation, etc, etc...basically you just say "cool" and don't think about it anymore because you're already moving on. If she manages to fix it cool, if notFine, but your reply was ineffective. You should have just asked her 'why?' instead of you telling her it wasn't a problem.
