so I overheard something about how women view men without kids

[ExodusNirvana]

Not slighting your family breh, but what you just wrote is literally the state of the Black Family across the U.S.
Not that every extended family has to have perfect marriages either
Not throwing stones by not stretch, but its crazy just how incohesive our families are right now.

Go to an Indian family reunion, ain't no baby mammas like that
Go to a Mexican family reunion, homeboy still with his wife and they have a starting five basketball squad kids.

It's like ........... is this really the trajectory AAs want to continue on or what??

I've thought these things to myself once or twice...but there are a lot of other little factors that I feel caused some of these things

- Lack of sex education
- Too much religion and not enough real world tangible information
- LACK. OF. FATHER. FIGURES.

What I figured out in my 20's was that to avoid these things that I'm seeing around me I need to stay strapped when it comes to these females and sex, and more importantly DO NOT GET MARRIED UNTIL I'M GOOD AND READY. I'm not saying it will never happend. shyt I could meet the girl of my dreams next weekend and shyt could go from 0-100 real quick.

But a lot of people in my family struggled because of lack of planning...lack of forsight...just general zero fukks given when it comes to the future. I mean I won't lie I've copped 4 pairs of J's this year alone but I got no kids, very few bills, and no wife or long term GF. If I want to spend bread on myself I can do that. Hell I ENJOY doing that. And I want to continue to be able to do that for at least another few years.

 

[lightbearerchef]

You 2 niccas is irritatin

Ya like trying to build my career, keeping my culture intact, a real father for my future seed....


Ya nikka I want and got those problems

If you want to be single cool but no need for,the bogus reasons. Its not like if everybody shyt was great you'd be like I feel I'm missing out let me get married have kids etc. Just be real without all the extra stuff that has no real baring on nothing.

 

[philmonroe]

You 2 niccas is irritatin

Thanks I guess what the fukk you quote me for attention?

 

[Buckeye Fever]

3 Sons gang

 

[Claudex]

Episode 2 Season 1. Titled "Ladies Room". For anyone wondering.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Personally, a man with a child is a deal breaker. I never want children and wouldn't date a man who would want a child in his future

 

[AJaRuleStan]

>you are a man in his 40's without kids, you must be undercover gay

No, the person who made this statement does not have a point. A person "kid status" does not determine ones sexual orientation.

Watch me prove it, I plan on never having kids and I'm straight.

 

[25YOUTHS!!]

Dayum ya'll nikkas in your 40s?

I mean by the laws of probability it makes sense assuming you been dealin with females for most of your life at that point.

I can't think of any men I know over 45 w/o a kid off the top of my head

edit: not talkin bout the sexuality part b/c I dont think that correlates with having or not having kids.