My fam looks at me funny when I say this but the fact of the matter is, my uncles who got married are mostly either divorced or seperated from their wives. Many of my females cousins have kids and the dude ain't marry them or just straight up DIPPED.
The few cousins that are married?
- One of em tells me all the time, "Yo enjoy your youth man your life ain't even start yet just do your thing, I WISH I was in your position. It's not that I don't love my wife and kids but...". And this man has 3 kids and a wife and his own home!
- One my my female cousins is happily married with two kids...but is tired of working. She wants to stay home and raise her two kids while the husband works.
- My one female cousin has a kid and the dude is loyal as fukk, they're bought a house, did the whole thing...but dude does NOT want to get married yet. He even said it at a family function to all my family "I'm not going anywhere so there's no need to spend all this money and do all of this when we could just go Downtown BK and get it done tomorrow morning"
All the rest of my female cousins either got multiple kids from multiples dudes and never been married. I probably have like...3 who are like me and are just doing the career thing and stacking bread. My male cousins save for like maybe one or two? All got caught up within the past 3-4 years and are now either with a new chick or just straight up NOT with their BMs.
Why ruin a good thing? Why would I want to stop living the life of freedom and happiness that I got now? I ain't even been to Australia yet brehs