So if a female says she needs space that =

[mcdivit85]

That's what's so funny... she already had her mind on the next man, but once you shown that you didn't care, all of a sudden she really started regretting her decision. If you would have whined and been like "baby please don't leave, why are you going?" she would have gave you some nonsensical reply about how this just isn't working, this isn't the right time, it's not you it's me, etc., etc. while she slowly shifted out of your life, never to be heard from again.. but you said aight, go do your thing and all of a sudden she wonders what she is missing out on.Honestly man, best thing to do is to tell ma to move on. She's found someone new and she needs to focus on her new man. Cut them old branches. It might give you a little satisfaction knowing that a jumpship is suffering for her disloyalty, but don't waste your energy on that anymore.

Exactly! I'm sure she planned on being able to rejoice in my misery...not because she's evil, but because it would give her an emotional high of knowing her much I cared. Internally, all women want this. However, to her detriment, I gave her no such response.

Yes, I was hurt...very much so. And even surprised. And I can't say that I stayed totally steel-faced because I didn't. But not ONE begging word or request for "closure" came from my mouth. And I looked her dead in the eyes when I told her that "I don't do breaks and we need to end this."

She's intrigued because she thought her hold on me was stronger than it was, and I guess she forgot who she was dealing with. My reaction and continued nonchalance has been like a cold bucket water dropped on her while sleeping.

Either way, I learned and grew from that experience. I hope the OP does the same.

Peace

 

[61 Corpses]

@Urbanmiracle

Whats the update my nigg :damn2: :damn2:

You still with this chick or nah?

 

[Bledswole]

If a woman says that you better get you some hoes on deck!!!!!!

 

[Mr. Somebody]

I dont think it matters why she said it, whats obvious is she doesnt want to be with you anymore so its time to move on, friend.

 

[NSSVO]

You can't own em, just rent them. Remember that.

 

[61 Corpses]

@Urbanmiracle this thread still breaks my heart breh

 

[Urbanmiracle]

I forgot about this thread. Yea she finally broke it off in July saying she lost attraction to me and wants to be friends. Haven't spoken to her since. She wished me a happy bday (which just passed sept 4th) and wanted to take me out I declined. Then she wanted to me be with her for her bday which is also the 1 year anniversary of her mothers death. I'm like you dumped me and said being with me was a lie. So I'm suppose to be there for you cause you're sad about ya moms? My mother is dead too. It's foul because I was there when she found out and I was there helping her cope but she dumps me. So fukk that. It's gonna be rough for her but that's her problem.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

I forgot about this thread. Yea she finally broke it off in July saying she lost attraction to me and wants to be friends. Haven't spoken to her since. She wished me a happy bday (which just passed sept 4th) and wanted to take me out I declined. Then she wanted to me be with her for her bday which is also the 1 year anniversary of her mothers death. I'm like you dumped me and said being with me was a lie. So I'm suppose to be there for you cause you're sad about ya moms? My mother is dead too. It's foul because I was there when she found out and I was there helping her cope but she dumps me. So fukk that. It's gonna be rough for her but that's her problem.

You did good, breh.

 

[mcdivit85]

I forgot about this thread. Yea she finally broke it off in July saying she lost attraction to me and wants to be friends. Haven't spoken to her since. She wished me a happy bday (which just passed sept 4th) and wanted to take me out I declined. Then she wanted to me be with her for her bday which is also the 1 year anniversary of her mothers death. I'm like you dumped me and said being with me was a lie. So I'm suppose to be there for you cause you're sad about ya moms? My mother is dead too. It's foul because I was there when she found out and I was there helping her cope but she dumps me. So fukk that. It's gonna be rough for her but that's her problem.

Real sh#t

Peace

 

[O.T.I.S.]

It means she's interested in other men and/or she's already smashing other men and wants to keep her options open

 

[Fatboi1]

Lol my EX threw that "We need some distance" curveball at me a while ago and then I indeed did that and then suddenly after a couple days of straight up ignoring her and not really paying her no attention she comes running back to me.

She gave me the "distance" ball one night when I asked her to come upstairs in my room. I did and a few days later got this. Problem is this chick still lives with me .

 

[61 Corpses]

Poor @Fatboi1

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

As people have already said it basically means she's not interested. Cut her off.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I forgot about this thread. Yea she finally broke it off in July saying she lost attraction to me and wants to be friends. Haven't spoken to her since. She wished me a happy bday (which just passed sept 4th) and wanted to take me out I declined. Then she wanted to me be with her for her bday which is also the 1 year anniversary of her mothers death. I'm like you dumped me and said being with me was a lie. So I'm suppose to be there for you cause you're sad about ya moms? My mother is dead too. It's foul because I was there when she found out and I was there helping her cope but she dumps me. So fukk that. It's gonna be rough for her but that's her problem.

you good, Urb?