So if a female says she needs space that =

[Chrishaune]

she probaly been ran through more than a highschool locker room after the fat kid nobody expected scored 3 touchdowns.

 

[King Poetic]

she saying it because some other dude has come into her life and she wants to see how far that goes till she decide " well ill stay with u or not " ...

your basically a fire extinguisher.. keeping u hanging in case of emergency

cut her loose. i had it happen to me.. But i threw her to the sharks and 5 years later i see her and her 2 kids at the bus stop but i keep

 

[Michael9100]

Yes yes I'm a ugly fukker. Established.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

No real updates on the situation. I got a 4 day weekend coming up so ima hit up a karaoke spot with some co workers and friends and get my mind off things. Next week I go back into the studio to work on my album

 

[Rominati]

That's called shifting the blame. Someone got in her ear or she just seen something and feels like she wants to explore, so she's going to move on from you by shifting the blame to you. "We need to talk", "you don't love me anymore", "I've been so busy"... you know the lines. Ain't no need to trip. When a woman wants space, send her into orbit.

Oh shyt how did I miss this?

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

IF thats you in the avi then she might be saying she wanna fukk other men.

Yes yes I'm a ugly fukker. Established.

Ok I got you. So I assume she a ugly bytch too, so just give her the space she requesting. I am not sure of your situation but the fact she asking for space is telling you she really need you away from her or away from your situation so she can reevaluate her life with you. Are you up under her constantly? You text/call all the time? You always over her house? Give us some specifics so we can solve this for you breh

 

[jshani]

Yes yes I'm a ugly fukker. Established.

cot damn breh lol

 

[Urbanmiracle]

I said that so the thread won't be too derail with he is ugly jokes

 

[ilovejesus]

It means she doesn't want to be with you.

 

[ChrisDorner]

IF thats you in the avi then she might be saying she wanna fukk other men.

@ you starting your post with this then continuing on like it wasn't ether

 

[ChrisDorner]

Yes yes I'm a ugly fukker. Established.

Real ass nikka

 

[AntiHero]

IF thats you in the avi then she might be saying she wanna fukk other men. Basically anytime a chic says she need space its because she aint feeling u or the situation she is in with you. Give her the space she requesting. If she has any respect for you she would tell you she want to see other men, she would gladly tell you if she got that respect for you.

Oh chit.

 

[61 Corpses]

@Urbanmiracle
Any updates fam

 

[mcdivit85]

I've had this "I need some space" thing happen to me. Oh, how I can still remember that fateful day.

Lying in bed together after after having sex. Mind you, I knew something was VERY wrong because this woman never gave any push back when it came to sex. But this day, she did. However, we still had sex. Then she started to cry. I asked her what's wrong because I could feel something had been amiss between us the last month or so.

Then she hit me with:

"Ya know, I love you and you make me happy. But, but....I'm just not in a good space right now. Sometimes, I feel like we need a break." As soft tears streamed down her cheeks like rain drops falling on outstretched tree leafs.

It felt like she had put on a steel boxing glove and hit me in the chest. I lay there in bed perplexed yet with steel resolve and pride. I fixed my eyes and retorted with:

"Well, if that's how you feel, then we're not taking a break. We are breaking up...we have to end this. I don't take breaks because there's no such thing."

I could see the wind knocked out of her sails...in the back of her mind, I'm sure she expected me to wilt and fold under pressure. She expected me to break down, beg her to stay and ask "why" continuously. But that didn't happen, even though I felt like my very soul was being walked on by football cleats.

After that day, I did not call, text or email. She did all the phoning and texting...I'm sure she couldn't help but wonder "why he didn't accept my BS" as she hoped/thought I would. But mama didn't raise no fool.

Oh, but behold the beauty of such perverse wisdom, because she never quite left the fold. Never got over that day and still calls regularly months later...even though she's with someone else. Constantly professing her love, disappointment in her choice and her desire for us to be together again. I shall continue to play along until I decide to pull a deathly trigger or maybe I'll just tell her to leave me alone...I haven't decided how much far I want to play this out yet.

As others have said, just do you and improve yourself, Urbanmiracle. Don't call, text or beg to work things out. Move on and become better each day. And soon and very soon, she'll notice that she is not on your radar, which will drive her intrigue through the roof.

Then the fun begins....if you so choose.

Peace

 

[kevm3]

That's what's so funny... she already had her mind on the next man, but once you shown that you didn't care, all of a sudden she really started regretting her decision. If you would have whined and been like "baby please don't leave, why are you going?" she would have gave you some nonsensical reply about how this just isn't working, this isn't the right time, it's not you it's me, etc., etc. while she slowly shifted out of your life, never to be heard from again.. but you said aight, go do your thing and all of a sudden she wonders what she is missing out on.Honestly man, best thing to do is to tell ma to move on. She's found someone new and she needs to focus on her new man. Cut them old branches. It might give you a little satisfaction knowing that a jumpship is suffering for her disloyalty, but don't waste your energy on that anymore.