So if a female says she needs space that =

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It means you've been showing ya ass for a bit long than you should have and either she is getting tired of it so she wants to bring you back to reality before it's too late, is currently tired of it and realizing her worth/your non-worth, or she been tired of it and has been done found your replacement. It's levels to this shyt breh.
 

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give her the space she askin for but take that same space for yourself as well, don't be sittin around on hold for this bytch to get fukked ova by whatever nikka she eyein and come crawlin back to you. Let her flap her wings, but let her know that you gone be living your life while she livin hers

I was with you until this. I guess to most of you, it isn't impossible for women to evaluate life without it being about getting "fukked" by another "nikka." Maybe with maturity many of you will learn that life isn't always black and white.
 

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i need space = i need time alone how direct can that be?
:stopitslime:If we're in a relationship and you say you need time alone, why not just break up instead of stringing me along? Once again, it's vague. I need time alone on a daily basis for many different reasons. If I want to explore my options, I'll just call the whole thing off. We know that women usually say "i need space" so they can live single with the option of coming back if they cant find something better.
 

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You know this was way more civil than I excepted. The coli never disappoints
on some real shyt... I think you have built her confidence up and now she wants to try somethings that she didn't have the nerve to do before.

You being her first BF pretty much says it all.
 

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The story of my life. My brother calls it playing mechanic. These women come to you. Broken. Battered. With a billion sob stories. You fix em up. They get nerve and run out thinking they know better now. Then try to come back broken and battered. Repeat process.
 

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The story of my life. My brother calls it playing mechanic. These women come to you. Broken. Battered. With a billion sob stories. You fix em up. They get nerve and run out thinking they know better now. Then try to come back broken and battered. Repeat process.

Well then you need to stop upgrading people. Find people already on your level honey.
 

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i need space = i need time alone how direct can that be?
not enough

You have to tell your bf/gf why you need to alone.

I was with you until this. I guess to most of you, it isn't impossible for women to evaluate life without it being about getting "fukked" by another "nikka." Maybe with maturity many of you will learn that life isn't always black and white.
It's not about maturity,

When two people are in a committed relationship being completely open about their emotions and intentions should be normal. No need to beat around the bush.
 

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why? this is why i dont date idiots that dont understand what "needing space" means.
You don't think two adults in a relationship deserve to know the reasoning behind any life altering decision?

explaining your reasoning doesn't mean you're NOT entitled to leave, it's just a matter of respect for your significant other. so they're not left wondering who or what is at fault. especially if either partner has intentions to reconcile in the future,
 

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She lacking something bruh:manny:...Some pretty boy nikkas who just wanna fuk done gassed her up somewhere and now she feelin herself and feel she can do better than you loooks wise(can happen to anybody:manny:)

She feels there's more out there for her because some of her friends,or really just one bytch she look at like a hero:wtb:....told her you ain't shyt or she could do better.

She came to the conclusion she can do better on her own,simply because the feelings she's had in previous relationships ain't there no more in this one.

Its not always a dude on deck,it could be a old dude you just don't live up to who's nowhere near being in the picture. But dude showed her what she wants out of a relationship and if you can't meet up to his standard at least,or you were tied with him but once you thought you had her you dipped below that standard? She gotta go start lookin again:manny:

Its way too many reasons a chick can say she need space which is why it ain't no point tryna figure out...we'd have to know her emotions for past dudes,how weak she is too peer pressure,how insecure she is,how hoeish,too much to worry yaself wit if she ain't ya wife:mindblown:

The fact she say you her "first boyfriend" and she 27 either gets a :childplease: or a :leon:....she probaly been ran through more than a highschool locker room after the fat kid nobody expected scored 3 touchdowns.
 

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@Urbanmiracle Didnt read most of this, but hey man since I know you personally...forget bout her, cop a model youve been wanting for a minute you aint got yet & make some music.
 

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I think wit men its different though:heh:...I think dudes very well could just wanna fuk without having to feel guilty about cheating,or wanna have the "we was broke up:mjpls:" excuse in the back pocket if some chick come tellin her something down the line,if you break up enough times you can confuse the situation:mindblown:....so sit tight ladies if ya man say he want space its a good chance he will be back:pachaha:....do dudes even do space without intentions of coming back?u at least in the running if a dude say that I think. I'm pretty sure females are done when they say that. Has anybody had a female say she wanted space but tried to come back shortly afteer?not years later after she been ran thru and tramatized,those don't count:ufdup:
 
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