So I've Been Thinking Of Copping That Backpage Stimulus Package ***Update Post #349

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Just please hurry up man. It's getting cold and you don't want to endure another Winter with dry dikk.

I feel like I'm watching an episode of Dragonball Z. This shyt is taking way too long to reach plot developments nikka.
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Why not just go to an Asian massage parlor

He kinda young they usually don't let you in unless you look over 25.

Plus they play a lot of games if you are not hip to the scene. A lot will try and get you to pay ridiculous amounts for tip while they do as little as possible to get it.

You gotta negotiate up front and my man doesn't have the experience or confidence to do all that. He needs a guaranteed reviewed situation.

So yeah he could go to a Korean Spa in Midtown but a lot of them like I mentioned don't like young cats and will give him a handy at most, rob his pockets. Don't want that to happen.

He needs to send me or post here what he thinking of visiting within his price range and the Seniors can determine if it is a good option or not.

Plus AMPs can be hit or miss even at that price level. I've always been frugal when it comes to certain things so I never got fleeced, I never agreed to nothing before a price was determined. This goes for many things in life.
 

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He kinda young they usually don't let you in unless you look over 25.

Plus they play a lot of games if you are not hip to the scene. A lot will try and get you to pay ridiculous amounts for tip while they do as little as possible to get it.

You gotta negotiate up front and my man doesn't have the experience or confidence to do all that. He needs a guaranteed reviewed situation.

So yeah he could go to a Korean Spa in Midtown but a lot of them like I mentioned don't like young cats and will give him a handy at most, rob his pockets. Don't want that to happen.

He needs to send me or post here what he thinking of visiting within his price range and the Seniors can determine if it is a good option or not.

Plus AMPs can be hit or miss even at that price level. I've always been frugal when it comes to certain things so I never got fleeced, I never agreed to nothing before a price was determined. This goes for many things in life.

I don't know now bruh... I had been researching on rub maps reading reviews and everything for months. I went my first time this past thursday and my experience went nothing like them dudes on rubmaps.
I went up in there told them I had been there before... Gave her the money up front and told her I want EVERYTHING with a stern voice. And best believe she played no games I got everything including the table shower. Even told a nikka to have a happy thanksgiving with my family as I walked out:obama:
 
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I don't know now bruh... I had been researching on rub maps reading reviews and everything for months. I went my first time this past thursday and my experience went nothing like them dudes on rubmaps.
I went up in there told them I had been there before... Gave her the money up front and told her I want EVERYTHING with a stern voice. And best believe she played no games I got everything including the table shower. Even told a nikka to have a happy thanksgiving with my family as I walked out:obama:

Good work but Spa Hunters is a better bet if hone boy will do it outside of Manhattan. And you pointed out something important - It could take MONTHS to find something good with a 90% success rate so if homie has a more immediate civvie option I would encourage him to take that.

Think of it as a testament to your strength. A lot of ppl can't hold it together

Nah that ain't strength. He is just caught up in a psychological loop. I can only speak for myself but I stopped binge drinking, wasting time and money at pointless social events and my work productivity improved drastically when I started seeing some pros back in '11.

This was before I met my Woman now, honestly it made me a better Man and more impervious to Women's bullshyt. My personality IRL is I value efficiency, I am mostly direct (but smooth about it) I have a " time is of the essence " mentality when I'm on the streets. I also am more experienced and older so I would not catch feelings that easy for any Woman regardless of how she looks how much we vibe etc.

I think the experience of seeing a few pros will help him value his time or money more. It can cultivate a shopping mentality and approach to Women which is exactly what is needed to keep your present bytch in check or acquire a new one with minimal investment if you so desire.

I am still working on theories on foolproof ways to take advantage of Women's psychological tendencies, in the meanwhile it will be more time and cost effective for dude to p2p for a while and build up his experience with laying pipe. Once you have that proper physical experience and foundation the rest will follow gradually.
 

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Good work but Spa Hunters is a better bet if hone boy will do it outside of Manhattan. And you pointed out something important - It could take MONTHS to find something good with a 90% success rate so if homie has a more immediate civvie option I would encourage him to take that.



Nah that ain't strength. He is just caught up in a psychological loop. I can only speak for myself but I stopped binge drinking, wasting time and money at pointless social events and my work productivity improved drastically when I started seeing some pros back in '11.

This was before I met my Woman now, honestly it made me a better Man and more impervious to Women's bullshyt. My personality IRL is I value efficiency, I am mostly direct (but smooth about it) I have a " time is of the essence " mentality when I'm on the streets. I also am more experienced and older so I would not catch feelings that easy for any Woman regardless of how she looks how much we vibe etc.

I think the experience of seeing a few pros will help him value his time or money more. It can cultivate a shopping mentality and approach to Women which is exactly what is needed to keep your present bytch in check or acquire a new one with minimal investment if you so desire.

I am still working on theories on foolproof ways to take advantage of Women's psychological tendencies, in the meanwhile it will be more time and cost effective for dude to p2p for a while and build up his experience with laying pipe. Once you have that proper physical experience and foundation the rest will follow gradually.
It's a lot of work to ask at 21 when a lot of girls won't even look your way unless youre already hip to the game. He's gotta lay a lot of brick before that foundation is place, and this is while juggling presumably school and whatever other priorities

I'm not making excuses for him. The first step toward doing anything is positivity. You could look at it as a strength. Some people lose it due to the social pressure of getting laid before *insert specific age*. He seems to still have it together. I commend him for that. I lost my virginity at 20 and I'll admit I felt like shyt most of my adult life being the butt of jokes, listening to my friends talk about getting p*ssy like it was so easy. I've done a lot of drugs and drank a lot to suppress how I was really feeling back in the day. But the trick is it wasn't cuz I wasn't getting p*ssy, it's because I felt like I had irreparable issues with myself that led to that struggle, and positive encouragement heled me to undue that when it was present. So psychologically the loop ends beginning with some positivity that he might not be receiving now.

Sorry I'm on mobile I would have wrote a lot more
 
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It's a lot of work to ask at 21 when a lot of girls won't even look your way unless youre already hip to the game. He's gotta lay a lot of brick before that foundation is place, and this is while juggling presumably school and whatever other priorities

I'm not making excuses for him. The first step toward doing anything is positivity. You could look at it as a strength. Some people lose it due to the social pressure of getting laid before *insert specific age*. He seems to still have it together. I commend him for that. I lost my virginity at 20 and I'll admit I felt like shyt most of my adult life being the butt of jokes, listening to my friends talk about getting p*ssy like it was so easy. I've done a lot of drugs and drank a lot to suppress how I was really feeling back in the day. But the trick is it wasn't cuz I wasn't getting p*ssy, it's because I felt like I had irreparable issues with myself that led to that struggle, and positive encouragement heled me to undue that when it was present. So psychologically the loop ends beginning with some positivity that he might not be receiving now.

Sorry I'm on mobile I would have wrote a lot more

It may not have appeared that way from my post but I'm 100% in agreement with your stance here. I lost my V at 17 to an older civvie girl who was 19 and wasn't even that enjoyable. But I don't think I would have been psychologically ready for a pro. I had an older MILF after that at 18 and had some difficulty staying hard I was nervous as hell. But then again maybe a pro could have made the situation easier - After all that's what she does for a living. A Proper one at least with good reviews.

A lot of females his age want it all and usually only a nikka my age has what they are looking for financially and mentally, but most times we're already at full roster or got a Woman who we are compatible with. The sucky situation is that most of them will complain and ignore a nikka like @Illuminatos and not work with him - But then complain 30 years later when they are single and lonely that they "Never met a good Man".

I think being young involves a lot of awkwardness and mistakes, but these days you have more and more young dudes that can't get any AT ALL. It's due to a variety of things but feminism, racism and just lower intelligence of females overall and social media's effects on socialization has all been big contributors.
 

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Good work but Spa Hunters is a better bet if hone boy will do it outside of Manhattan. And you pointed out something important - It could take MONTHS to find something good with a 90% success rate so if homie has a more immediate civvie option I would encourage him to take that.



Nah that ain't strength. He is just caught up in a psychological loop. I can only speak for myself but I stopped binge drinking, wasting time and money at pointless social events and my work productivity improved drastically when I started seeing some pros back in '11.

This was before I met my Woman now, honestly it made me a better Man and more impervious to Women's bullshyt. My personality IRL is I value efficiency, I am mostly direct (but smooth about it) I have a " time is of the essence " mentality when I'm on the streets. I also am more experienced and older so I would not catch feelings that easy for any Woman regardless of how she looks how much we vibe etc.

I think the experience of seeing a few pros will help him value his time or money more. It can cultivate a shopping mentality and approach to Women which is exactly what is needed to keep your present bytch in check or acquire a new one with minimal investment if you so desire.

I am still working on theories on foolproof ways to take advantage of Women's psychological tendencies, in the meanwhile it will be more time and cost effective for dude to p2p for a while and build up his experience with laying pipe. Once you have that proper physical experience and foundation the rest will follow gradually.
Good work but Spa Hunters is a better bet if hone boy will do it outside of Manhattan. And you pointed out something important - It could take MONTHS to find something good with a 90% success rate so if homie has a more immediate civvie option I would encourage him to take that.



Nah that ain't strength. He is just caught up in a psychological loop. I can only speak for myself but I stopped binge drinking, wasting time and money at pointless social events and my work productivity improved drastically when I started seeing some pros back in '11.

This was before I met my Woman now, honestly it made me a better Man and more impervious to Women's bullshyt. My personality IRL is I value efficiency, I am mostly direct (but smooth about it) I have a " time is of the essence " mentality when I'm on the streets. I also am more experienced and older so I would not catch feelings that easy for any Woman regardless of how she looks how much we vibe etc.

I think the experience of seeing a few pros will help him value his time or money more. It can cultivate a shopping mentality and approach to Women which is exactly what is needed to keep your present bytch in check or acquire a new one with minimal investment if you so desire.

I am still working on theories on foolproof ways to take advantage of Women's psychological tendencies, in the meanwhile it will be more time and cost effective for dude to p2p for a while and build up his experience with laying pipe. Once you have that proper physical experience and foundation the rest will follow gradually.


Heres the thing though I don't want the OP thinking that he has to pay every time he wants to have sex. Thats not whats up and that isnt the lifestyle I want to promote. My situation was just me wanting something new I had never been with an asian before so I said fukk it why not.

I feel like if he starts paying and sees how easy it is to just P4P he'll see no reason to approach women and shoot his shot.

He needs to get women the old fashion way with his mouth piece before resorting to just out right paying.
 
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He needs to get women the old fashion way with his mouth piece before resorting to just out right paying.

So the problem is the old fashioned way ain't gonna work no more.

Honestly in retrospect like most young cats I had no game to speak of. I had the benefit of having good genetics and attractive face and physique to compensate for that. The bytches that broke me in was just bored and needed a young negroid to build up their confidence because their ex probably shytted on them and tossed them out like old gizzards in the trash. They weren't ugly by any means but probably appeared to be basic to an established older nikka 30+ with his game on lock.

This was back in '04. 10 years later with social media even basic hoes got egoes now. They don't have dry spells like they used to. Now any bytch can put up an IG account make a few deceiving shots and get nikkas from all over the world slobbering over her. This dynamic did not exist when I was coming up.

Now it's harder than ever for a nikka to get his come up. We can't expect these young cats to be able to replicate our experiences. Personally if I were single again I might just see a couple good reviewed pros once in a while. I wouldn't have the patience to put up with a lot of these females who think they can bat way out of their league. This whole society is fukked in general, so can't nobody blame a negro for wanting to take the most time and cost efficient way to keep himself sane.

The game is ever changing. And a lot of times you gotta change who you are and most nikkas don't want to. If you had the option to spend less time chasing hoes, more time chasing money and not have to change yourself to get p*ssy then of course that option would appeal - The only reason it's not more prominent is the quality of providers has really dropped in the past couple of years big time. When I was in it on the weekly basis - I saw a lot of young Indian nikkas in passing at least 4-5 years younger than me at the time, so they had to be around 21. That's a different dynamic though because they are arranged marriage a lot of times and their daddy tell them to make sure to get the non-indians out of your system when they young whether through game or paid.
 

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The game is ever changing. And a lot of times you gotta change who you are and most nikkas don't want to. If you had the option to spend less time chasing hoes, more time chasing money and not have to change yourself to get p*ssy then of course that option would appeal

Im pretty sure everybody can agree on this. I don't know anybody that would rather spend more time chasing women and less time getting money.

At least for me its more time getting money and eating good food. Less time chasing p*ssy.

Im not gonna lie the last few months I have been wasting alot of time cupcaking on the phone instead of handling my business career wise.
 
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Im not gonna lie the last few months I have been wasting alot of time cupcaking on the phone instead of handling my business career wise.

Indeed man. We as Black American brehs gotta hustle. We gotta put up n work longer hours to hustle and get ahead. We don't got time to master games with these amateur IG hoes. Time better spent working on projects building skills :myman: and getting high quality Women later in life once we have the proper leverage.:smugdraper:
 
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