So more and more Black Men are getting on that #PassportLife is dating in America really that bad now?

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I'm talking about the men who claim all these foreign women are so superior to American women. How come these guys never pick up women from 1st World countries? Why is it always poor women?
Who gives a fukk? Also, not 1st world country=/=poor? Are they picking up women from small villages and favelas?
 
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I’ve traveled and dated many women in different countries. Nothing beats an American black women who’s cool, funny, in shape, looks out for you, and has a nice body.

With that said, leaving America I noticed the women are overall in better shape, more put together, and seem to take more pride in their appearance. Now many are very ignorant to the black American history and injustices other than civil rights movement and even slavery. But if you are a solid dude that’s in shape with a good sense of humor you can do well.

If I get on Hinge in America I have to swipe through 10-15 women before I see an in shape women. Spain, France, Germany, Ghana, Morocco, Amsterdam, Poland, Lithuania maybe 3-4 before in shape women.

Also I stepped my game up as well. I realized how bad Americans dress when I went overseas. We dress very sloppy collectively unless it’s a wedding or suit and tie invite.




I realized yesterday that these people HAVE to stay in shape because they literally gotta maintain an Asian squat every time they go to the bathroom.

With that being said, thank you for your perspective. Americans are fat, lazy, pampered. Men and women both are out of shape, myself included, I've gotta get this 6 pack back and quit trippin.
 

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It's hard to do if you're not predisposed to logic but as long as you deprioritize women and stay detached from them on some level (don't give yourself fully, prioritize self at end of the day) you'll be aight. In this dating landscape he who cares least wins. Have some shyt, be in shape, be able to hold/drive conversation, have a sense of humor or seduction and be indifferent to outcomes
Uhhh that doesn’t sound good/healthy… is that what ppl in America should do?
 

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Honestly the black men who need passports to get women are dead weight anyway. Let Consuela/Natasha/Ling Ling bleed them dry so they'll be as delusional as the white men who think they're getting pampered not cause they're an easy lick. fukk 'em.
Hmm then y’all say the thugs are impregnating all the womens …hmm which one is it?
 

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People are really mad brehs are getting new experiences, meeting different types of women, getting exposure to cultures, and being treated like kings :blessed:

This shyt has zero impact on dudes who don't do it so why yall so concerned. them videos and IG pics got yall n yall feelings bad :umad:
:russ::lolbron:

Big facts
 

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And It’s crazy how much hate they getting for it like damn can’t brothers have standards.
Yeah…and say they do get married…90% of them seem happy and with low stress. While on the other hand… most American men are either battling with their wives for power or have given up and let her take the reigns
 

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What you gotta understand is them nikkas ain't getting shyt in their town.

Mid tier better than nothing
Let’s keep it real… I rarely see brothas with fine women in most cities in America especially if they’re married. Most cats do not have baddies unless they lucked up one night. Or he looks like a rapper. They are not consistently entertained by beautiful women.
 

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I definitely think this is a growing trend and I'm not just because of YouTube channels. People in here downplaying this aren't living in reality. This was inevitable with the break down of the family structure in the black community. And no amount of shaming dudes is gonna change things. The genie is out of the bottle so to speak. And men with means are gonna exercise their options for the best deal possible.
Facts but I do think brothas are way too loud by showing prostitutes in DR and Colombia
 

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The misconception is you just have to be an average Joe and you go overseas then after 2 weeks you can have a 10 by your side.

You still have to be a solid dude. The difference is it’s just more opportunities and options for guys who have their stuff together and are relatively descent dudes. If you’re a bum here you will be a bum there. Women can still fish out many guys who are just bums no matter the country.

What I’m saying is if you are a man who is in shape, make a good living, have a descent personality and you live in a city in America full of overweight women with attitudes you should try visiting outside the US. Not for hookers just research a city you may want to visit and you’ll instantly notice a difference. There’s fat women with bad attitudes in every country. It’s just that you’ll have more quality options in my opinion excluding the big cities like DC, New York, LA etc.

I was in Poland last year and a woman apologized to me for gaining 4 pounds and not looking like 100% like her photo. Hell she looked pretty damn close but she was dead serious about how she felt about 5 lbs. lol.
 

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How I see it..

A man gotta do what he feels he gotta do!

If a man feels that he needs to travel abroad in order to find a suitable mate, then it is what it is..

However, I want to know if these men plan on living abroad indefinitely, stay temporarily or plan on bring the foreign woman back to the States??

I am all for people living their lives on their terms. There is no rule that says that a man has to find his partner where he resides. Also, any man who does venture outside the country certainty wouldn't be the first ri do it. People have been traveling and hooking up with people around the 🌐 since humans traveled from foot to wagon to 🚄, ✈️ and 🚙!

Nothing new!
 

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smh I love the argument of "them foreign women just finessing you they dont love you for real" meanwhile in USA hashtag #wastehistime goes viral to show which woman can get the most out of a man without giving him any cheeks

shyt is crazy, Thats some good finessing them foreign women are doing making sure a nikka ate breakfast lunch dinner and making sure a mf is sexed up till he completely satisfied.


that true uncut femininity is Powerful you aint gotta ask me twice to do anything for a chick that gives me peace. Even here in USA when a woman talks soft and respectful that automatically sets her apart because she aint got all that masculine energy like too many chicks here.
 

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Who gives a fukk? Also, not 1st world country=/=poor? Are they picking up women from small villages and favelas?

Don't be obtuse. We all know why they are over there. And it matters because you gotta have pride for your own people and not let someone paint such a negatively broad stroke about your women (as well as women for men).

Let's face it. Many men aren't suitable for relationships in this country, too busy "doing them", to exact some form of bootleg revenge against Western woman.

The Redpill/Bluepill mantra is not meant for Black Men. That's one of the vehicles driving our people further apart from each other. Same for independent women. People gotta grow up, handle their business, understand who they are and kick it with like minded people.

Guys going abroad and can't tell you a damn thing about the country, except "The women are submissive".
 
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