So my buddy just flipped out on me...over a girl

[rocksteady]

he probably has a complex with being in a relationship with a girl - it's probably a main source of insecurity in his life (especially given his age).

you were talking about matters that were very sensitive to him and you obviously didn't know it was a touchy subject - now you know.

when he gains confidence in that regard, he will let you know when it will be appropriate for you guys to talk about that subject. until then, back off and i'm sure he probably didn't mean to offend you personally.

 

[Hussein Fonzarelli]

Relationships, Hook-ups, Dates, Side pieces, Rendezvouses, whatever, always just nod your head and do what you have to do. People really don't want advice nor do you want to possibly give wrong advice. Just let him live.

I let him live, only thing I didn't understand (until yesterday) is the sharing the story part.


My logic was - if you talk to me about shyt like that, you'll probably appreciate my honest take.

I wasn't aware it just means "hey let me tell you what happened (from my skewed point of view) while you nod and um-hum all the time".

 

[Still Benefited]

I let him live, only thing I didn't understand (until yesterday) is the sharing the story part.


My logic was - if you talk to me about shyt like that, you'll probably appreciate my honest take.

I wasn't aware it just means "hey let me tell you what happened (from my skewed point of view) while you nod and um-hum all the time".

Nah u did right...that's the normal thing to do....u better than me cuz I woulda told em he wuz a lame for drivin 5 hrs away....he probaly met this chick on plenty of fish talkin bout he met her on a business trip...when is it her turn to drive 5hrs to see him? Matter of fact u need to save ya boy he bout to get taken to the cleaners and you'll never see what he owes u again...probaly gave her the DS already

 

[duncanthetall]

He sounds like a bytch. His actions at that age got me scusted. Let that nikka kick rocks till he get his shyt together

 

[Tom Foolery]

I let him live, only thing I didn't understand (until yesterday) is the sharing the story part.


My logic was - if you talk to me about shyt like that, you'll probably appreciate my honest take.

I wasn't aware it just means "hey let me tell you what happened (from my skewed point of view) while you nod and um-hum all the time".

You're a good friend, don't get me wrong. You did the right thing and he overreacted, but just let him handle it. For me, when I give advice to a friend the first time and they don't listen, it all falls on deaf ears the next time.

 

[Hussein Fonzarelli]

u need to save ya boy

I aint savin him for shyt...if one day he gets into the relationship, good for him, but whatever happenes in this gig he's in, I don't care and I don't wanna hear.

I'll let him cool off for few days and then I'll ask for my money. I know he'll bytch out...because, just days before he went there this last time he told me how he needs to work overtime that week so he can get the money to go down there.

If it's lovey dovey I wouldn't EVER say anything remotely about "oh man isn't it expensive to have it long distance.........but it's kinda bytch ass to owe me money because we're cool....

It's that old "oh I'm good with him he won't hassle me for money I owe to him - we're friends" shyt.


And he can't take a honest good-heart advice. fukkin lame.

 

[Turbulent]

let dude go through it like all of us. the first heartbreak hurts but it's what turns you into a man.

 

[KAWS]

I don't understand people going at the TS.
you don't want people to ask about something/give advice, don't bring it up in the first place

 

[Hussein Fonzarelli]

I don't understand people going at the TS.
you don't want people to ask about something/give advice, don't bring it up in the first place

That's what I was thinkin in the first place. But I'm kinda lame for tryin to help that chump. Usually my bullshyt detector is immaculate, and even tho it kept bleeping every time he went on to talk about his Romeo gig, I tried to be a good fella and give my honest take.

Which was basically - make a move, show her you want her, be a man bout it. I almost told him to go fukk himself when he started to yell "you dont know her she aint that type"

When he said that, I went to explain myself......I said; dude, if she likes you and you like her, you tryin to kiss her wont ruin shyt, if its mutual why the fukk would that ruin it.

Then I felt this eerie feelin and inner voice " you talkin to a 30 year old, breh".

I've should've stopped right then and there. Now my next goal is to help me get my money back. As for the friendship side of things......

 

[True Blue Moon]

He flipped out on you cuz he's not used to getting girls and never learned the man protocol in regards to talkin women with the fellas. He's a late bloomer.

 

[Hussein Fonzarelli]

yea...late

 

[YBE]

He's on step one to becoming "Reincar"

 

[its_normal]

This is going to end badly for your friend, you might as well stand back and enjoy the show...

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

The 30 year old virgin.

 

[Hussein Fonzarelli]

"Reincar"