Right, that mean they just letting him do whatever he wants and never instilled the fear of God in him. you try to lay the smackdown they're gonna call it abuse. so basically you're the third parent at this point cause they can't stand being around him, that's why you're there to lighten the load. now all y'all just sitting there letting the kid do whatever he wants.
It takes a village; if I was OP in that situation I would have regulated. The problem is everyone wants to sit on their hands today since everyone is so cot damn sensitive.
Its a problem.