So My Deadbeat Dad Won the Lottery....

[Rockstar Mom]

Listen, if anything else, his mom is definitely OWED that money. Thats why I specifically said his mom should look into it. fukk that, she struggled all those years alone and he should pay. Straight up.

And this is coming from a woman does NOT get childsupport(and dont have to, because I dont deal with deadbeats).

Mom should collect whats rightfully hers.

 

[Methodical]

OP remember your father's misgivings are not your fault. I went through something similar to you. Parents divorced and pops out of the picture thereafter. I was with a woman who could tell I had a chip on my shoulder because of my absent father. She pressed me to get in contact with him but I said the same thing, he ain't looking for me. Shortly after her advice I got news that my pops passed away. At least make the attempt again Breh. If he doesn't get back at least you tried. Remember it's not your fault if he doesn't reach back to you.

My brother was like that when come to my mother. I was 15 when my parents got divorced. My mother did some foul shyts and was a biggest liar.

When my brother got his first born son with his wife. My brother was to my mother that he won't let her see his son. My mother was "Please, don't take my gradndson away from me, I wanna meet my grandson". Her wife pressed my brother to give my mother chance and she's a grandma and your mother after all and my brother did give her chance.

My mother was a good mother to us but she was a bad wife to our father. We're all on my pop's side and we were at our mother but I was the worse one and hardheaded and stubborn as fukk. Right now....we all good and got along and move forward.

 

[Neil Tyson]

If my deadbeat won. I'd get as much as I can from him (act nice, "I love you dad, I'll always be your son. I understand why you had to leave") and then still

 

[Black Sinatra]

"former" deadbeat dad. That nikka is now a wealthy absentee father.

 

[Lord Scion]

Air him out on social media, try to get the sympathy angle going from middle aged women on Facebook or some shyt

Iunno, I'm shooting in the dark here

 

[Luck]

Thank you nikka
Bunch of no moral soft ass bytches in here
He's knocking on 30 he should have his own shyt going on
Your pops denied his DNA why would you even want a hand out from him

Where are y'all nikkas balls

nikkas ain't got no pride or self respect talking about suckin another straight fukk nikka off for some bread.

Be a grown ass man tryin to take another man to court for child support fam about to be sittin in court with a :'( face at 28 years old tryin to get some sympathy from a judge for peanuts. Might as well just go and get on your hands and knees then beg

These some baller alert ass nikkas here I swear to god

 

[Cabbage Patch]

If my deadbeat won. I'd get as much as I can from him (act nice, "I love you dad, I'll always be your son. I understand why you had to leave") and then still

I remember that scene.

He never mentioned his father again, did he? Was he happy?

 

[KillerB88]

So, my deadbeat dad won the lottery a couple of days ago. He has, for the most part, ignored me since me and my mom divorced when I was 6. I even became close with my little brother over my dad neglecting him as well after my dad and my little brother's mom separated.

My first thought was "meh, good for him". However, now I am starting to feel depressed because friends and family up north keeps reminding me over and over that he won.

"You know your dad is a millionaire now, right?" I'm almost 28 years old, and we haven't spoken in years, that has nothing to do with me.
"You need to reach out to him" up until 2013, I would call him once a year to tell him happy birthday (which is today), and I would never hear back from him, so I stopped.

"He might be looking for you" he knows where my family is, if he had any interest in talking to me, he would know how to find me.

I think I may be suffering from this for a while. Yes, I work for myself, and I feel like I am on my way myself, but I still resent him for him not being there. Not being there to give advice. It makes me not believe in Karma anymore. It makes me not believe in anything anymore.

One of the things that drove me the most was so he can see who I have become, and feel bad that he wasn't there to help. Now, that will never happen. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being too prideful to just reach out? I need some help on this one.

And people think God exists. Your dad is a scumbag, but if he has two bits of common sense hell manage that money well and probably create a whole new family and do things the "right" way this time. Where's the justice in that?

 

[Reno89]

The all the members that actually read my post, and didn't just post about whether or not I should get money out of my dad, thank you for the insight.

 

[blackgentlemenvoice]

This FAKE pride half of y'all have in here about he almost 30 and grown.....is why the black community is FAILING in so many communities.

You are part of a generation where More men have walked out or never seen their children.
Parenthood doesn't stop at 18.. Man get that money. Your sperm donor ain't shyt.

I can tell by these answers ALOT of people in here don't have daddies or good relationship with there fathers. Family is there for you til u die, aunts, uncle's cousins.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

This FAKE pride half of y'all have in here about he almost 30 and grown.....is why the black community is FAILING

The more you read shyt on here and just really observe the group think on social media and how we move in general it really all comes together. We're fukked. But that's another topic.

 

[lotteryplaya]

On the bright side now you'll learn that you have a biological brother that you've never met


@lotteryplaya

I saw a similar story to the OP on another site.

The all the members that actually read my post, and didn't just post about whether or not I should get money out of my dad, thank you for the insight.

Do you know the name of the game he won? Why did you decide to post the story here? Why are you disappointed in the reactions if they are being honest?

 

[InfinateOpulance]

He needs to be sued. Get what's rightfully yours OP. Don't let him off easy.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I'm in the same situation and of a similar age except for the lottery part.

Forget about that nikka

Asking for a hand out will make you look like a loser.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Back child support your best bet if your mom filed

Some straight rats in this thread

You a 28 year old man breh, you made this far without a handout so have some fukkin pride


If he looks out, good and if he doesn't you still good but to sit here and count somebody else money at your age is some thot shyt

So money from a deadbeat dad who hit the lotto is a handout
I wouldn't go begging for it but that deadbeat nikka owes him that bag