So My Deadbeat Dad Won the Lottery....

[marcuz]

Black people are the only ones who let debt, and whats owed to them "slide". All because of pride. Please believe if Dad owed a parking ticket from 20 years ago, the state would have no problem coming for him.

But mom cant get her back child support?

facts. nikkas calling going to their father looking for a handout

 

[Judo]

So, my deadbeat dad won the lottery a couple of days ago. He has, for the most part, ignored me since me and my mom divorced when I was 6. I even became close with my little brother over my dad neglecting him as well after my dad and my little brother's mom separated.

My first thought was "meh, good for him". However, now I am starting to feel depressed because friends and family up north keeps reminding me over and over that he won.

"You know your dad is a millionaire now, right?" I'm almost 28 years old, and we haven't spoken in years, that has nothing to do with me.
"You need to reach out to him" up until 2013, I would call him once a year to tell him happy birthday (which is today), and I would never hear back from him, so I stopped.

"He might be looking for you" he knows where my family is, if he had any interest in talking to me, he would know how to find me.

I think I may be suffering from this for a while. Yes, I work for myself, and I feel like I am on my way myself, but I still resent him for him not being there. Not being there to give advice. It makes me not believe in Karma anymore. It makes me not believe in anything anymore.

One of the things that drove me the most was so he can see who I have become, and feel bad that he wasn't there to help. Now, that will never happen. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being too prideful to just reach out? I need some help on this one.

Continue doing the same thing you was doing before he won the lottery: Ignoring him. The lottery not gonna change how feel for you. He still gonna be the same deadbeat breh, but just more cash in his pocket. You don't need to reach out to nobody. Keep hustling and working towards yours. Just because he got money in his pocket now, won't change nothing breh.

What type of family wants YOU to REACH OUT TO HIM just because he won the lotto? Family say some of the stupidest shyt. Shouldn't they be telling HIM to CONTACT YOU instead?

 

[Mac Brown]

wtf does him winning money have anything to do with being a deadbeat. I hope he gives the lottery ticket to his new wife, gets a lawyer and keeps the money out of your aint shyt moms and courts hands for running him out the house

Damn

 

[BaldingSoHard]

fukk him

Health is the real wealth

So fukking true.

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

You should contact him. That man owes you.

 

[Kenny West]

Thank you nikka
Bunch of no moral soft ass bytches in here
He's knocking on 30 he should have his own shyt going on
Your pops denied his DNA why would you even want a hand out from him

Where are y'all nikkas balls

Thank you

OP been accepted the situation for what it is and was living his life. But now when he catch wind his old man fell into some money now all of a sudden OP in his feelings on some austin powers shyt


like you care about a relationship....foh. You sound like a groupie. nikkas wanna curse his name in one corner of they mouth then use the other corner to beg when they on they knees with their hand out. If you was over it then you should be over it now. fukk his money, hold your own nuts.

 

[NoChillJones]

You are telling a 28 year old man to go holla at his mom about looking into unpaid child support when he was a kid


This is why no one takes women's advice serious. They are so selfish and only want to hear themselves speak so they won't see the simple holes in the advice they are giving

How much you owe breh...

 

[Cuban Pete]

So, my deadbeat dad won the lottery a couple of days ago. He has, for the most part, ignored me since me and my mom divorced when I was 6. I even became close with my little brother over my dad neglecting him as well after my dad and my little brother's mom separated.

My first thought was "meh, good for him". However, now I am starting to feel depressed because friends and family up north keeps reminding me over and over that he won.

"You know your dad is a millionaire now, right?" I'm almost 28 years old, and we haven't spoken in years, that has nothing to do with me.
"You need to reach out to him" up until 2013, I would call him once a year to tell him happy birthday (which is today), and I would never hear back from him, so I stopped.

"He might be looking for you" he knows where my family is, if he had any interest in talking to me, he would know how to find me.

I think I may be suffering from this for a while. Yes, I work for myself, and I feel like I am on my way myself, but I still resent him for him not being there. Not being there to give advice. It makes me not believe in Karma anymore. It makes me not believe in anything anymore.

One of the things that drove me the most was so he can see who I have become, and feel bad that he wasn't there to help. Now, that will never happen. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being too prideful to just reach out? I need some help on this one.

Man we might have parallel lives this is my story down to the lil brother part and everything

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Did your mom get childsupport, that he never paid? If so, you better tell her to go to court and secure that bag. Child support debt doesnt get erased. My aunt is getting child support she's owed and shes a GRANDMA now.

Yup! Knew someone that lost they whole lotto winnings

 

[Luck]

a lot of these dudes have kids they're not taking care of as well, so their logic makes sense to them

You sound like a hurt bytch

Now a nikka gotta have kids they didn't take care of because we don't agree with this single baby momma mindset

 

[Guile]

Have a millionaire deadbeat dad brehs

Cold world.

 

[Guile]

At your family telling you that you need to reach out to a bum ass man. HE'S the father. HE created you, he needs to reach out. If you did reach out to him and he couldn't be bothered to keep in touch, then fukk him!

As for him winning

Best wishes to you going forward OP!

This is what I don't get too. Breh's are in this thread like why you only calling your deadbeat father once a year!?

 

[marcuz]

You sound like a hurt bytch

Now a nikka gotta have kids they didn't take care of because we don't agree with this single baby momma mindset

single baby momma mindset? what does that have to do with neglecting your financial responsibilities as a father?

 

[richaveli83]

Don't even worry about it. He didn't care about you all these years before he became a millionaire so that won't change because he's a millionaire now.

How you look like seeking a handout from a breh don't doesn't give a damn about you?

You made it this far without him you'll be fine.

 

[marcuz]

Thank you

OP been accepted the situation for what it is and was living his life. But now when he catch wind his old man fell into some money now all of a sudden OP in his feelings on some austin powers shyt


like you care about a relationship....foh. You sound like a groupie. nikkas wanna curse his name in one corner of they mouth then use the other corner to beg when they on they knees with their hand out. If you was over it then you should be over it now. fukk his money, hold your own nuts.

no its "fukk him, now cut my check."