So My Homegirl Think Its Ok To Still Talk To Her Ex

[MaxPain]

Backstory she dated this guy for 3 years during college & broke up with him a little bit after she graduated

She broke up with the guy cuz he was going thru a rough patch for a year, depressed dropped out of school & she couldnt take it anymore (i dont blame her)

3 months go by she starts dating this new guy whose she been with for a year and hes the complete opposite (confident, good looking and someone she looks up to compared to her ex)

Me & her catch up every once in a while and she tells me how after they broke a couple months later her ex got a new gf who cheats on him

And that they text each other ever since the breakup once a month about their new boos or so like happy birthday


So im like why tf u even know this...why are u still talking to ur ex?

She goes off and says oh u dont know me its not like we spend all night talking on the phone we text each other like once a month to say watsup, my new boyfriend can check my phone he has my ig and fb account info he doesnt care


Then i was like why is ur new bf so cool with this


She goes on and says not all exes hate each other we are still cool yadda yadda

Mind u the new bf is a clear upgrade from the ex better looking not an depressed self pitying alcholic and actually has $$$

We get into a big argument and now shes ignoring me.

What does the coli think

 

[Cheeky]

What's wrong with maintaining a cordial relationship with the ex? Like she said, it's not like they're now besties and if the new boyfriend is ok with it why does it even matter what you think?

 

[Marco Zen]

I think its a recipe for disaster.


Soon as she get in a argument with her new upgrade and she text the ex about it and he start caping on her..

 

[Rawtid]

Unacceptable, imo, but if everyone involved is ok with it so am I.

 

[MaxPain]

What's wrong with maintaining a cordial relationship with the ex? Like she said, it's not like they're now besties and if the new boyfriend is ok with it why does it even matter what you think?

Cordial is like hey watsup in public not texting each other relationship business after being together for 3 years and only seperated 3 months . Whats the point of texting and calling an ex if u dont have kids or business together?

 

[Critical Distance]

lol just cut contact. da fukk they need to talk about?

 

[MikelArteta]

Everyone is different but unless kids are involved I don't see the point to

Funny thing I'm sure this chick would throw a hissy fit if her new man was talking to his ex.

 

[ORDER_66]

bytches keep doing dumb shyt....and wonder why men become #hoh & #GMB she doesnt respect the relationship or her man or herself bytches need to STOP TALKING TO THEIR EXES...

 

[Ol’Otis]

she's fukkin her ex

all women are fukkin their ex

 

[MaxPain]

Everyone is different but unless kids are involved I don't see the point to

Funny thing I'm sure this chick would throw a hissy fit if her new man was talking to his ex.

I brought that up and she said aslong as shes informed and the ex is over him she doesnt mind.


She knows all her exes business with his new gf and tells me about it like "Lol frankies gf is crazy he told me they got into an argument last night"

 

[MaxPain]

bytches keep doing dumb shyt....and wonder why men become #hoh & #GMB she doesnt respect the relationship or her man or herself bytches need to STOP TALKING TO THEIR EXES...

I aint a saint but idk why females have the need to hold on to the past everytime i hear a story about an ex its a girl fukking with her ex or tryna go back to him


I feel like fukking an ex is recycling p*ssy & talking to one i dont have kids or business with is a waste of time

If I see them in public ill catchup and say hey but thats about it

 

[Cheeky]

Cordial is like hey watsup in public not texting each other relationship business after being together for 3 years and only seperated 3 months . Whats the point of texting and calling an ex if u dont have kids or business together?

Well I didn't take it to mean that they're texting and calling daily but that they communicate every once in a while to catch up. It's not like the relationship ended contentiously so there's no reason for animosity imo. Again, if the new bf has no problem with it then what does it really matter (unless you like her yourself?)

 

[beenz]

It's totally inappropriate. Only reason an ex is hanging around is in hopes that he can still smash on the side.

 

[MaxPain]

Well I didn't take it to mean that they're texting and calling daily but that they communicate every once in a while to catch up. It's not like the relationship ended contentiously so there's no reason for animosity imo. Again, if the new bf has no problem with it then what does it really matter (unless you like her yourself?)

Maybe because im her friend and she asked me what I thought about the situation?


I was telling her what i thought and she can take it or leave it obviously she got mad so its watever


Truth is this whole situation is suspect.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I just wish people would be real. We're all adults.
I'm not saying it doesn't happen b/c I know some very mature people who are friends with EVERYBODY they've ever interacted with on some we are all one type steez.

But let's just be honest. Let's just be real. Most people ain't like that. She keeping options open hoping she can be the one to "save" em after all those years.
The majority of people have nothing to talk about or say to exes after they are finished. Let that shyt go. But if not then at least be honest about still wanting them instead of pretending ur just oh so good friends.
People too damn goofy these days.