ORDER_66
I dont care anymore 2026
You sure she even told her new man she's even talking to her Ex?!!?
Y'all know females be lying! What boyfriend would be OK with their girl talking to an EX?!?!
So My Homegirl Think Its Ok To Still Talk To Her Ex
- Thread starter MaxPain
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You sure she even told her new man she's even talking to her Ex?!!?
Y'all know females be lying! What boyfriend would be OK with their girl talking to an EX?!?!See that's exactly what I mean. Now she even looking for attention from the scenario. If nothing is going on then there IS no situation.Maybe because im her friend and she asked me what I thought about the situation?
I was telling her what i thought and she can take it or leave it obviously she got mad so its watever
Truth is this whole situation is suspect.
The generation of people failing to handle their business. It is disrespectful and careless. People don't start relationships with the intention of cheating but it happens. People give into temptation. Being friendly and warm with an ex where the potential for bumpin' and grindin' is playing with fire.
No man would be cool with his girlfriend speaking with their ex. However we live in a time where he will act as though he is cool before going on to forums asking people if he should be suspicious about his girlfriend texting her ex at 2am in the morning and spending the weekends at his apartment.
Maybe because im her friend and she asked me what I thought about the situation?
I was telling her what i thought and she can take it or leave it obviously she got mad so its watever
Truth is this whole situation is suspect.
Let's agree to disagree.
You sure she even told her new man she's even talking to her Ex?!!?
Er...you know I'm a woman right? Why are y'all so ready to leap to the worst conclusions? It's not like she's pretending to be single when she's talking to her ex and she's being very upfront and transparent with her man. Her boyfriend is probably secure.
You sure she even told her new man she's even talking to her Ex?!!?
I can see her man being cool with it but its like why is he so cool with it...what is he doing
she got real defensive when i brought that up , "hed never do that"
No homo dude is a good lookin gym rat so i wouldnt be suprised if hes non chalant cuz he has more in rotation...
The generation of people failing to handle their business. It is disrespectful and careless. People don't start relationships with the intention of cheating but it happens. People give into temptation. Being friendly and warm with an ex where the potential for bumpin' and grindin' is playing with fire.
No man would be cool with his girlfriend speaking with their ex. However we live in a time where they will as though it is something he should he looked before going on to forums asking people if he should be suspicious about his girlfriend texting her ex at 2am in the morning and spending the weekends at his apartment.
But that's not the situation the OP described hahaha. Are y'all paranoid or am I being naive? I'm starting to doubt myself lol.
Youhadasparkwhenustarted
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That's just disrespectful, even if I was cool with an ex, I'd cut off all contact if I got into a new relationship. People just like having options on the side. The ex is likely still talking to her in hopes of smashing again anyways.
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
How long have you been into her?Backstory she dated this guy for 3 years during college & broke up with him a little bit after she graduated
She broke up with the guy cuz he was going thru a rough patch for a year, depressed dropped out of school & she couldnt take it anymore (i dont blame her)
3 months go by she starts dating this new guy whose she been with for a year and hes the complete opposite (confident, good looking and someone she looks up to compared to her ex)
Me & her catch up every once in a while and she tells me how after they broke a couple months later her ex got a new gf who cheats on him
And that they text each other ever since the breakup once a month about their new boos or so like happy birthday
So im like why tf u even know this...why are u still talking to ur ex?
She goes off and says oh u dont know me its not like we spend all night talking on the phone we text each other like once a month to say watsup, my new boyfriend can check my phone he has my ig and fb account info he doesnt care
Then i was like why is ur new bf so cool with this
She goes on and says not all exes hate each other we are still cool yadda yadda
Mind u the new bf is a clear upgrade from the ex better looking not an depressed self pitying alcholic and actually has $$$
We get into a big argument and now shes ignoring me.
What does the coli think
Our generation is allergic to boundaries b/c boundaries implies discipline and accountability. When ur in a relationship, yes u do have to let go of disrespectful situations with others. If that chafes you, don't get into a relationship.
I'm not saying u have to avoid all members of the opposite sex but people know what they are doing.
For once I wanna go to the truth room and have somebody be like: "I wanna fukk him/her but I also want time/attention/potential sex from him/her too, so I'm tripping about social boundaries b/c really I wanna interact with both."
Lmao!
I'm not saying u have to avoid all members of the opposite sex but people know what they are doing.
For once I wanna go to the truth room and have somebody be like: "I wanna fukk him/her but I also want time/attention/potential sex from him/her too, so I'm tripping about social boundaries b/c really I wanna interact with both."
Lmao!
This is the reality of the situation, sadly. People seriously lack self-awareness.
ORDER_66
I dont care anymore 2026
I know your a woman... Whenever a woman says one thing she does another...
i take everything a woman says with a grain of salt. Women have been known to doubespeak on the regular. This thread is a prime example of a woman having an ulterior motive, who can't be trusted...
dont blame me for having hang ups. we CONSTANTLY see the same things happen over and over it's always an ex. first it starts with calls, then lunches, then she's placing the ex's name under a girl's... oh we just friends we're catching up... blah blah blah... That nikka will be the first one she calls when you fukk up. matter of fact she will actively compare the ex and the new man in her mind sizing them up to see who is the better choice...
shes lying
the only reason 99% of men want to be friends with their ex is because a) they want them back b) they want to smash again
and your right thats exactly how women are, stop being so insecure order 66, if i wanted to be with him I would but I'm with you
and even if your a spineless simp and accept it, the moment your texting your ex or talking to a chick its all hell to pay
if i was dating your homegirl id be just as pissed as her talking to a ex as shes talking to you, only difference between you and her ex is you haven't got in her vagina yet