So My Wife Woke Me Up Crying

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That "gay" nikka popped her b.

Pass her to the team :takedat:.

Sounds like you might need to get checked out breh, he might not have been all the way out the closet if you catch my drift :usure:

And also your wife had sex with him at some point in time.:manny:

She's emotional over a a gay cat she hadn't kept in touch with for 15 years?

They been in touch fam

Probably built a House In Virginia together

:mjlol: he fukkd yo bytch nikka, go get tested :umad:

I usually know what to expect from the coli but yall nikkas caught me off guard with this shyt:dead:
 

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Ain't nothing to be upset about. It's her feelings not yours. Let her express her emotions. She need you more than ever during times like this so being mad ain't gonna work.

This. It's called being the bigger man.
 

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This. It's called being the bigger man.

To hell with that. Being the bigger man leads to a stressful life. Waking someone up in the middle of the night over some gay guy that has died that you hadn't seen in 15 years? That is causing anger which leads to stress seeing as how your sleep was interrupted on some bullshyt.

Spouses generally cause more stress than work:

You thought work was bad? Spouses cause 'more stress than our bosses'

Stress related effects:

http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/stress-body.aspx
 

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To hell with that. Being the bigger man leads to a stressful life. Waking someone up in the middle of the night over some gay guy that has died that you hadn't seen in 15 years? That is causing anger which leads to stress seeing as how your sleep was interrupted on some bullshyt.

Spouses generally cause more stress than work:

You thought work was bad? Spouses cause 'more stress than our bosses'

Stress related effects:

http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/stress-body.aspx

Chump shyt.

Being the bigger man means not bytching about this situation.

The wife lost a friend, so instead of even getting into the details of it, all you have to do is support her till she gets over this. Reframe this into getting here closer to you.

Flip it into "you're right life is short, that's why I appreciate every minute of it with you."

Ta-da! Now you're having post funeral, NDE sex. And she comes to respect you as someone larger than life in one aspect.

Seriously guys, learn how to turn tragedy into triumph.
 

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Chump shyt.

Being the bigger man means not bytching about this situation.

The wife lost a friend, so instead of even getting into the details of it, all you have to do is support her till she gets over this. Reframe this into getting here closer to you.

Flip it into "you're right life is short, that's why I appreciate every minute of it with you."

Ta-da! Now you're having post funeral, NDE sex. And she comes to respect you as someone larger than life in one aspect.

Seriously guys, learn how to turn tragedy into triumph.

She will think you are blowing her off. How about, "Go cry over there and let me sleep", then I go back to sleep? There you go, one sentence.

Stop giving this dude bad advice, you need to train a woman how to respect your space, especially your sleep. No woman in the year 1900 would have woke her man up crying over some fuccboy nonsense.
 

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Chump shyt.

Being the bigger man means not bytching about this situation.

The wife lost a friend, so instead of even getting into the details of it, all you have to do is support her till she gets over this. Reframe this into getting here closer to you.

Flip it into "you're right life is short, that's why I appreciate every minute of it with you."

Ta-da! Now you're having post funeral, NDE sex. And she comes to respect you as someone larger than life in one aspect.

Seriously guys, learn how to turn tragedy into triumph.
Breh she hasn't talked to him in 15 years:damn: and if he was still living she wouldn't have talked to him for another 15...I don't have time for irrational emotions man:manny:
 

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Breh she hasn't talked to him in 15 years:damn: and if he was still living she wouldn't have talked to him for another 15...I don't have time for irrational emotions man:manny:

She will think you are blowing her off. How about, "Go cry over there and let me sleep", then I go back to sleep? There you go, one sentence.

Stop giving this dude bad advice, you need to train a woman how to respect your space, especially your sleep. No woman in the year 1900 would have woke her man up crying over some fuccboy nonsense.

You guys dont know women do you?

She's dealing with emotional shyt, it's obviously irrational. You as a man got to set her straight. You can tell her not to disturb you but that's why everyone in here is saying she's already been with dude.

Stop with all the caveman shyt breh. You tell her to fukk off and she's going to miss dude even more= more emotions cause "hubby isn't being supportive." Smh.

Here's a tip emotions are waves, and like waves can be cancelled out by a similar wave. I already told you how to finesse her funk.

Someone she knew died. It's normal for her to feel fukked up about it. That's part of her emotional support base. If you don't care about him, fine. But you should at least care about how your woman is being affected.

And look at you even getting emotional over loss of sleep. Wah, wah wah. Cuddle up with your girl and your blankey and you can both cry yourselves back to sleep.
 

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And you obviously do have time for irrational emotions since you made a thread about it. K'mon brehhhhhhh:bryan:
 
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