So NOW God can fix our relationship....

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She's trying to guilt trip you into staying with her. Whatever she planned to do if you were gone somehow didn't work out like she thought it would and she's panicking because all her options are closing.

Don NOT fall for the okey doke.


If i were you i wouldn't even live with her cause it leaves too much opportunities for fukkery to occur (she could injure herself on purpose and call the cops on you, fake suicide attempts and blame it on you to play on your emotions, try to seduce you, start arguments with you and use what you say against you in court...Deep down it's not even healthy for the children to see all that. Next time she pulls a stunt, try to get proof and give it to your lawyer. he'll know how to use it. But if i were you, i'd leave the house ASAP. she probably wouldn't do all that if you're not around cause she does it to get your attention. but if she pulls another suicide stunt, use that against her to get the kids.This is not about revenge or making her pay for how cold she was to you back then. this is about being happy in the future. but you gotta realize she could also be going crazy because of the obsessive attachement she's developing for you. This is slowly turning into one of those bad "fatal attraction" type movies. be carful and get help if you need. and again...






























do not fall for the okey doke...
 

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i live there still because i'm trying to make the transition easier for everyone. NOT to be harrassed about some shyt that SHE said that she wanted, and now she is like "i didn't say that, YOU MISUNDERSTOOD! I said i was scared, not that i wanted a divorce...." yeah, like "i'm scared" could ever be mistaken for "i don't want to be with you anymore" :comeon: i just don't feel anything anymore, and she can't get it through her skull. last night, she ran into the kitchen while i was sitting on the couch, grabbed 2 pill bottles, and ran into the bathroom and closed the door. i ran behind her and unlocked the door, and she was sitting on the toilet with a handful of pills about to put them in her mouth. i slapped them out of her hand like :mindblown::why:

:facepalm: i don't know what to do brehs. :sadbron::wow:

Honestly, I can't say whether you should work it out or not, and I could be completly wrong in the judgment that I am about to make; however, it seems like she is trying to manipulate you into staying. She wants you to be afraid to leave so if something happens to her, it's your fault and you will have to live with the guilt.

It also sounds like she may truly regrets initiating this process. If there is a possibly that you might want to make it work, I would really try to understand her motivation for this sudden change (did she talk to someone and they slapped some sense in her, etc.) so that it's not just a case of prolonging the inevitable.
 

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So you can't move out because of all these responsibilities, but you can move in with your parents?

nikka just say you still there cuz u don't wanna pay a 2nd rent and stop fronting

Pretty much. :heh:

:rudy: nah son. not at ALLLLLL! if you have ever been married, you'd know that it's not as simple as just packing my shyt and bouncing. i have a kid and responsibilities to the household that i need to take care of and make a CLEAN break. but on some real shyt, i just may have to go to my parents house until Feb. i can't live in that house like this. ain't nothing fun about this situation, and i can find better ways to get my ego stroked than this shyt...:upsetfavre:
:yeshrug: Where there's a will, there's a way. I'm pretty sure you still sleep in the same bed with her every night too. :ld: I don't think you're option-less here though.
 

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So you can't move out because of all these responsibilities, but you can move in with your parents?

nikka just say you still there cuz u don't wanna pay a 2nd rent and stop fronting

nikka, that's part of the responsibilities! i ain't fronting at all! HELL NO i don't want to pay 2 rents. my house rent is fukkin' $1400 a month. fukk i look like paying for 2 of those....:comeon: and my parents are nosy and always want to be in my business and talk and offer advice, and talk....and talk, etc. that's why i didn't want to go there. but now it's looking like the better of my choices now....:noah:
 

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Pretty much. :heh:


:yeshrug: Where there's a will, there's a way. I'm pretty sure you still sleep in the same bed with her every night too. :ld: I don't think you're option-less here though.

Yeah, I was wondering if they were still sharing the marital bed too. @Steve Piffler Yall still get it in sometimes? :shaq: *nvm, you just answered that*
 
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Remember when she had no interest in anything you had to say? Remember when all of your advances were rebuffed and she didn't give a fukk about you, and how painful that was? What's changed? I'm guessing her dude on the side kicked her to the curb, and now she's running back to you.

I'd feign interest in this whole "god / working it out" thing, get her to a church and record her to admitting her infidelity (Because God forgives all, right?) and then take it to the judge and get off without paying her a penny.

:ohlawd: :ohlawd:

Came in here to post the same thing!!
 
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