So NOW God can fix our relationship....

[Turbulent]

dudes just want to read their own bullshyt

this is probably true in my case to some extent.

but at the end of the day, whatever reason i wrote it (whether it's because i want to give advice, because i'm bored, because i want props, for my own ego or a mixture of all this) whatever reason i wrote it, if someone reads it and they recognize some truth in it, i don't think there's anything wrong with that necessarily.

 

[malbaker86]

it's twisted logic.

if you get back with her or if you open up to her at this point, you will just be teaching her that manipulation is the way to go if she wants you to open up.

i've NEVER looked at things like this before bruh. Got damn this is the best piece of info i've read/heard in a while.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

You misinterpret the way i use "teach". i don't mean it like he should hold a grudge or have his revenge. Matter of fact i'm against holding grudges because it's self-inflicted mental poison.

When i say teach, i mean it in the sense that you teach people on how to treat you in the future. it's cause and effect. If she's being manipulative, he sees she's being manipulative and he rewards this behavior by opening up, she learns that when it comes to Steve Piffler, getting him to open up can be achieved through manipulation. You definitely don't want to teach that to ANYONE (let alone your wife). He should only open up to her when she's truly sincere and honest (and it would be clear in his gut and intuition). That way, you teach her that to get Steve Piffler to open up, you have to be sincere, honest and humble (and not do it as a tactic/strategy). THAT's what you want to teach people when it comes to how to treat you (and even then you should be careful.)

What good is a marriage if it's founded on games and manipulations?

I completely agree on the manipulation thing. I understand.

Like I said though, of he's receiving that same push for divorce from those in real life, then maybe he should go through with it. If people who are familiar with the situation from both sides are saying something different, that's something to consider as well.

 

[Trajan]

Gatdamn!

She losing the plot bro.

Real talk she's capable of anything. Once a person talks about suicide they become a ticking timebomb.

Hope she don't burn the house down like Left-Eye.

 

[Anothergirl]

Come on now lady, you know exactly what im talkin about . Remeber the first coli thread Piffler made about his marriage? I explained exactly why his relationship was strung out/bound to fail and you said i aint know what i was talking about

oh my bad..i forgot that exchange...but if i remember correctly i said ONLY COUNSELING could save his marriage because of the state it was in and people came in saying that that was bs and "counseling doesn't work blah blah".
i even remember steve himself saying he didn't believe in counseling and would try to work it out with her on his own. i warned him against that but

Fast forward....and sure enough they're broken up. so actually we were both kinda right in this case homeboy ...

 

[Sierra Mist]

Tell your wife to stop eating so many nuts and berries.

 

[concise]

I just got home and only read the 1st post....


I thought you and your wife don't live together anymore?

 

[Mountain]

Oh Big Mountain You was right! I was wrong! can you please forgive my black ass!?

Dont worry dear, i'll forgive you, but dont you ever question the gawd again

 

[Berniewood Hogan]

GET OUT OF THERE, BROTHER! GET TO DA CHOPPA, DUDE!

 

[Schmoove]

Once a broad starts talkin' that "I will find somebody who will want to be with me" shyt, it's a wrap. I mean, you can stay with her if you want, but if you do, just remember that statement and keep it in your mind everytime u out in public and you see a bad bytch you wanna fukk so u wont feel any guilt when you smash that p*ssy

This statement didn't end the way it looked like it would. :vick:

 

[Buckeye Fever]

This statement didn't end the way it looked like it would. :vick:

Just the way the game should be played

Never forget a word she says. If she start talkin' bout previous nikkaz paid this and that and all that other bullshyt to try and make u fell less than a man, you start plottin' right there on the spot.

I mean, sure, the mature thing is to cut ties with her altogether, but the utter deceit and hurt you will bring her will be so gratifying


NEVER let a woman off easy if she hurt you. You forgive her, then go behind her back and fukk as many females as you can. Then, you do it. You set it up so she catches you in the act, and when she does, and you see the hurt and disbelief on her face, you laugh and leave her.

 

[Schmoove]

Once a broad starts talkin' that "I will find somebody who will want to be with me" shyt, it's a wrap. I mean, you can stay with her if you want, but if you do, just remember that statement and keep it in your mind everytime u out in public and you see a bad bytch you wanna fukk so u wont feel any guilt when you smash that p*ssy

GET OUT OF THERE, BROTHER! GET TO DA CHOPPA, DUDE!

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[dennis roadman]

wait a sec, 1400/month for a house?

we're gettin ripped off out here

 

[Anothergirl]

Dont worry dear, i'll forgive you, but dont you ever question the gawd again

 

[winb83]

its impossible to "fix" a relationship. relationships don't break they only redefine themselves as he people involved in them grown and change. either those people can accept what they've become or reject it.