So now I'm the angry black man at work

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Back story: Me and this shriveled up cave bytch have never gotten along. We sit right next to each other and haven't spoken more than two words in over a year. She's my SR lead, kind of over me but not really.

So this morning I was running a little late due to a car accident blocking the high way. Literally 8 minutes(I'm salaried btw) and she told me she had just emailed the Director and Manager to see if I was off today, shade:stopitslime:. That's literally how I looked at this pale c*nt.

Got to my desk sat down and wanted to let it go but I couldn't. I'm the type, I speak my piece and let the cards fall as they may. So I got up and calmly told her that that email was unnecessary. She knows I'm never late and I always make sure to let them know when I'm off.

Of course i get the call from my Manager to come chat. Dude said she stormed into his office on some 'how dare that niggra talk to me like that'. He also mentioned that several pawgs had come to him distraught at how aggressive I was towards the old bytch :comeon:

10 years ago when I was working in construction I wanted to work in corporate so badly. Busted my ass to get my Accounting/Finance degree and I keep running into the same old bullshyt. I almost got fired from my first Finance gig because my Manager threw my black ass under the bus. Maybe it's me. Maybe Tech is better for us. All I know is if they boot me out I have to go another route. You'll never see me in another suit asking these mfs for an opportunity. fukk'em
 

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Don't let her or no one else fukk up your cashflow mane. Sometimes you should lash out on them cacs and sometimes you should hold back. Her emailing the director is one of those moments you should of just held your tongue. Now she's gonna be looking for more opportunities to get you up outta there. Is there a way you can move your desk?
 

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Don't let her or no one else fukk up your cashflow mane. Sometimes you should lash out on them cacs and sometimes you should hold back. Her emailing the director is one of those moments you should of just held your tongue. Now she's gonna be looking for more opportunities to get you up outta there. Is there a way you can move your desk?
I hate myself when I hold my tongue. That shyt eats me alive so I just don't do that anymore. The manager said he is looking into moving me to another lead.
 

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Back story: Me and this shriveled up cave bytch have never gotten along. We sit right next to each other and haven't spoken more than two words in over a year. She's my SR lead, kind of over me but not really.

So this morning I was running a little late due to a car accident blocking the high way. Literally 8 minutes(I'm salaried btw) and she told me she had just emailed the Director and Manager to see if I was off today, shade:stopitslime:. That's literally how I looked at this pale c*nt.

Got to my desk sat down and wanted to let it go but I couldn't. I'm the type, I speak my piece and let the cards fall as they may. So I got up and calmly told her that that email was unnecessary. She knows I'm never late and I always make sure to let them know when I'm off.

Of course i get the call from my Manager to come chat. Dude said she stormed into his office on some 'how dare that niggra talk to me like that'. He also mentioned that several pawgs had come to him distraught at how aggressive I was towards the old bytch :comeon:

10 years ago when I was working in construction I wanted to work in corporate so badly. Busted my ass to get my Accounting/Finance degree and I keep running into the same old bullshyt. I almost got fired from my first Finance gig because my Manager threw my black ass under the bus. Maybe it's me. Maybe Tech is better for us. All I know is if they boot me out I have to go another route. You'll never see me in another suit asking these mfs for an opportunity. fukk'em

I'm doing almost the opposite right now. I hate working in the private sector. I'm trying to get into a trade where I can do physical shyt. Man, I feel your pain though having a snobby ass bytch over you like that. I try to hold my tongue while I finish this schooling up. Can't wait till I put in my 2 weeks notice :whew:
 

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So this morning I was running a little late due to a car accident blocking the high way. Literally 8 minutes(I'm salaried btw) and she told me she had just emailed the Director and Manager to see if I was off today , shade:stopitslime:. That's literally how I looked at this pale c*nt.

Got to my desk sat down and wanted to let it go but I couldn't. I'm the type, I speak my piece and let the cards fall as they may. So I got up and calmly told her that that email was unnecessary. She knows I'm never late and I always make sure to let them know when I'm off.

You fell right into her trap. That's right out of the cac corporate playbook. :mjlol:

You have to play the game better than them or stay there long enough to learn the industry and then break out on your own. :wow:

I would suggest trying to find a new division to work in or another job b/c they are laying the ground work to fukk up your performance review. :francis:
 

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Back story: Me and this shriveled up cave bytch have never gotten along. We sit right next to each other and haven't spoken more than two words in over a year. She's my SR lead, kind of over me but not really.

So this morning I was running a little late due to a car accident blocking the high way. Literally 8 minutes(I'm salaried btw) and she told me she had just emailed the Director and Manager to see if I was off today, shade:stopitslime:. That's literally how I looked at this pale c*nt.

Got to my desk sat down and wanted to let it go but I couldn't. I'm the type, I speak my piece and let the cards fall as they may. So I got up and calmly told her that that email was unnecessary. She knows I'm never late and I always make sure to let them know when I'm off.

Of course i get the call from my Manager to come chat. Dude said she stormed into his office on some 'how dare that niggra talk to me like that'. He also mentioned that several pawgs had come to him distraught at how aggressive I was towards the old bytch :comeon:

10 years ago when I was working in construction I wanted to work in corporate so badly. Busted my ass to get my Accounting/Finance degree and I keep running into the same old bullshyt. I almost got fired from my first Finance gig because my Manager threw my black ass under the bus. Maybe it's me. Maybe Tech is better for us. All I know is if they boot me out I have to go another route. You'll never see me in another suit asking these mfs for an opportunity. fukk'em

Finance is a dirty game breh. I'll tell you now. Email EVERYTHING like conversations can be had but send a follow up email detailing the convo. You have to
 

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That's why I laugh when people think corporate gigs are easy. If they only knew how much and often you are required to stifle yourself and how spiritually, mentally and emotionally draining it is. May not be physical labor but trust it's not all good either. And white women are the fukking worst. A while back I was fired because I was cool with my white supervisor inside and outside of work and we got in an non work related argument and she got me fired.
 

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Don't let her or no one else fukk up your cashflow mane. Sometimes you should lash out on them cacs and sometimes you should hold back. Her emailing the director is one of those moments you should of just held your tongue. Now she's gonna be looking for more opportunities to get you up outta there. Is there a way you can move your desk?

Exactly white people be on some passive aggressive shyt. Ever since he did that, that white lady gonna be calculating on shyt to get him fired... trust me.

She will not rest until he up outta there, and she gonna get all the other white people to think he is bad. Don't trust white people in the workforce... the women are passive aggressive, and the men are too, but sometimes you find a cool white dude but he will eventually snitch on you.

I cant tell you how many times you meet a white dude at work, and he seem cool.... then next thing you know your manager telling you some shyt the white boy told him. :stopitslime:



OP I'm curious as to how you and the white lady devolved this tension with each other prior to this episode though?
 

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That's why I laugh when people think corporate gigs are easy. If they only knew how much and often you are required to stifle yourself and how spiritually, mentally and emotionally draining it is. May not be physical labor but trust it's not all good either. And white women are the fukking worst. A while back I was fired because I was cool with my white supervisor inside and outside of work and we got in an non work related argument and she got me fired.

Let's hear this story in more detail. :jbhmm:
 

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Start applying for other jobs, breh.

May not happen today, may not happen this month, may not even happen this year, but at this point they're looking for a reason to get rid of you. Your best case scenario is that you get another job offer and leave of your own volition before they find an excuse to fire you. It's rough for brehs in the workplace.
 

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the passive aggressive shyt that some of these women do in offices :beli: that sounds like some garbage. i doubt anything comes of it, at least i would hope not


My pop used to always say there's nobody more dangerous than a white woman. For years I would just look at him like :comeon: , but that's because I was thinking on a physical level. Now that I'm working in an office environment, I see exactly what he means. And I ain't one of those anti-pawg, cac this cac that posters, however, working with white females in an office environment, you really have to watch what you say and how you deal with them. Some of them really do attempt to carve out a pecking order via passive aggressive bull sh!t. It's ridiculous. I remember working in blue collar settings with grimy white dudes, and one positive thing about them is, at the least they would let you know they weren't feeling you. Like they would tolerate you in the name of making a living and in many cases I earned their respect for not tolerating any of their bull sh!t. We will coexist at the least as you have to eat as do I. Ya know, there's ways to deal with that element.

The corporate world though............man, it's a monster unto itself and can drive you nuts if you don't learn to adapt to it. Women in general keep some bull sh!t going, but I swear white women take it to another level. It's a dirty game.
 

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That's why I laugh when people think corporate gigs are easy. If they only knew how much and often you are required to stifle yourself and how spiritually, mentally and emotionally draining it is. May not be physical labor but trust it's not all good either. And white women are the fukking worst. A while back I was fired because I was cool with my white supervisor inside and outside of work and we got in an non work related argument and she got me fired.

Yep, this is why I make it a general rule not to hang out with my white coworkers outside of work. I mean I might go to the Christmas Party or whatever, but we won't be at the bar drinking or anything. Yeah, they think I'm antisocial (which is true) but so be it. If shyt goes south you know whose side they'll be on, so it's better to keep your coworkers at arms length in my experience.
 
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