If a man is "toxic" or abusive the woman can leave. I don't understand why this needs a discussion.
Ehh. It's a simple concept but it isn't necessarily the easiest mental hurdle to get over.
To put it in a broader perspective, what percentage of this country (and Coli members) are working jobs that aren't taking them anywhere, that they hate, that they don't just simply walk away from?

And people books and seminars based around this concept since forever.