So she leaves out of the country for a job. What do you decide to do?

[Bless't]

I personally decided to end it. 6 months without seeing her... Nope. I can't do it. She thought we were serious enough for us to withstand that.

She jumped to that conclusion without consulting with me. She assumed I'd be cool with it. Broke my fukking heart

Then she tried to do the backtrack shyt like, "oh, I'll break the contract and we can go back like it was."

She was excited to jet because she was comfortable enough with our relationship to do so without consulting with me.



Anyway...

What say you? Would you be cool with it or would you be pissed?

Regardless, it's done. I'll be fukked up for a while then move on. Still though.

*kicks rocks*

 

[Cake]

I don't take relationships seriously. I would agree and do whatever I wanted. just nod and smile.

 

[Bless't]

I don't take relationships seriously. I would agree and do whatever I wanted. just nod and smile.

I'd agree if she didn't mean anything to me. shyt hurts though.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

If you're not married, you don't really have the right to an opinion

 

[Bless't]

If you're not married, you don't really have the right to an opinion

Boom.

 

[Cake]

I'd agree if she didn't mean anything to me. shyt hurts though.

because you caught feelings

Aye brehs, brehs, he LOVED her

Honestly I'm in a similar boat only worse. Greatest person I've ever met has moved onto the point where she won't even talk to me. It hurts but you gotta be real with yourself. Relationships almost never workout. So if you want to save yourself the heartbreak stay detached

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Boom.

That doesn't mean propose.



She's obviously impulsive and doesn't give a fukk about the relationship. Let it burn

 

[The BasedFather]

These hoes for everybody

 

[Bless't]

because you caught feelings

Aye brehs, brehs, he LOVED her

Honestly I'm in a similar boat only worse. Greatest person I've ever met has moved onto the point where she won't even talk to me. It hurts but you gotta be real with yourself. Relationships almost never workout. So if you want to save yourself the heartbreak stay detached

Yeah, yeah. True.

You have no idea how quick the shyt happened though. It was Monday to Wednesday... Then gone.

Like... We were just...

 

[Bless't]

That doesn't mean propose.



She's obviously impulsive and doesn't give a fukk about the relationship. Let it burn

That's what she ultimately wanted in the long run... And I wasn't opposed to that. She just felt comfortable enough in our relationship where she thought I'd be cool with her dipping like that. Now I feel like the villain for not being kosher with said situation.

 

[...o3]

...sooo you broke up with her because she made a career decision that was going to take her out of the country for half a year, but she wanted to do the long distance thing while there...you get mad and break it off with her, and she suggests doing a complete 180 by trying to cancel the contract? you're still not happy and want to go through with the heartache of a needless breakup. did i get that right?

you didn't like her that much anyway.

 

[Seedz]

Way too impulsive. You aren't the villain. If you let it go, the resentment just festers and grows. Then you do some dumb shyt and wind up really being the villain.

This is too crazy of an action for her to just randomly decide.

"We can still skype!"

Fukk outta here.

 

[MaxBundles]

because you caught feelings

Aye brehs, brehs, he LOVED her

Honestly I'm in a similar boat only worse. Greatest person I've ever met has moved onto the point where she won't even talk to me. It hurts but you gotta be real with yourself. Relationships almost never workout. So if you want to save yourself the heartbreak stay detached

This why I don't take you lame HOH dudes seriously, make fun of him for catching feelings then go into a sob story bout a girl that won't talk to you. Yall just losers that got your heart broken.

Anyway OP, I agree with you. Woulda broken up with her too and let her go on the trip even if she said she wasnt gonna go anymore.Not gonna hold her back especially to better herself

 

[Bless't]

...sooo you broke up with her because she made a career decision that was going to take her out of the country for half a year, but she wanted to do the long distance thing while there...you get mad and break it off with her, and she suggests doing a complete 180 by trying to cancel the contract? you're still not happy and want to go through with the heartache of a needless breakup. did i get that right?

you didn't like her that much anyway.

That last comment... fukk you.

You in that circle. For sure.

 

[Cake]

This why I don't take you lame HOH dudes seriously, make fun of him for catching feelings then go into a sob story bout a girl that won't talk to you. Yall just losers that got your heart broken.

Anyway OP, I agree with you. Woulda broken up with her too and let her go on the trip even if she said she wasnt gonna go anymore.Not gonna hold her back especially to better herself

be unable to understand humor brehs.