So she leaves out of the country for a job. What do you decide to do?

[Bless't]

be unable to understand humor brehs.

It is the coli...

But not now breh.

 

[Bless't]

We can let it die though. I'm all in my shyt. Not going to deny it. It's new to me so I'm butt ass hurt. It's cool though.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

That's what she ultimately wanted in the long run... And I wasn't opposed to that. She just felt comfortable enough in our relationship where she thought I'd be cool with her dipping like that. Now I feel like the villain for not being kosher with said situation.

You're not wrong. She offered to let you choose after the fact because she wants you to make the decision (eventhough she already made it)

Passive aggressive level 7

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

How serious were you? Exclusive? Long-term relationship?

She should have told you first but if you haven't talked about the nature/future of your relationship, why should she factor that into her decision?

 

[Diondon]

I don't believe in long distance relationships. So holla at me when you get back. If we link back up, we link back up.
Let that girl go get her money.

 

[Bless't]

How serious were you? Exclusive? Long-term relationship?

She should have told you first but if you haven't talked about the nature/future of your relationship, why should she factor that into her decision?

We've been exclusive for 4 months. Yes, long term. We both have made sacrifices. She knows this. She simply thought that we were "just what she wanted" imo.

She's a fantastic person. That is beside the point.

I'm not trying to make her the villain. I just want other people's opinion. I'll be lonely... that ain't shyt to me.

 

[Silkk]

Be Ted Mosby brehs

 

[Bless't]

I'm looking for other people's perspective when it comes to...

She decides to leave you unexpectedly for 4 months.

What's your reaction?

Simple as that.

 

[Bless't]

Mods delete it. Feels are caught. ☹

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

We've been exclusive for 4 months. Yes, long term. We both have made sacrifices. She knows this. She simply thought that we were "just what she wanted" imo.

She's a fantastic person. That is beside the point.

I'm not trying to make her the villain. I just want other people's opinion. I'll be lonely... that ain't shyt to me.

Then that's definitely something that you should have been aware of before she made such a decision. Pretty inconsiderate on her part and honestly I would think she wasn't as serious about the relationship as I was if she could so easily make such a decision without thinking about me first


breaking up was probably the best decision.

 

[Bless't]

Then that's definitely something that you should have been aware of before she made such a decision. Pretty inconsiderate on her part and honestly I would think she wasn't as serious about the relationship as I was if she could so easily make such a decision without thinking about me first


breaking up was probably the best decision.

Exactly.
I was aware... Only as much as she allowed though. She's not shady or anything. This was just a... "Career" thing.
She thought she was invincible.

Which...

Imo she was. She was my girl though.

 

[Mess World]

She didn't leave for a new job she left you that was her excuse to break up with you

 

[Bless't]

I

She didn't leave for a new job she left you that was her excuse to break up with you

You exactly right my breh. She just didn't like this cac ass bul.

 

[Mess World]

I


You exactly right my breh. She just didn't like this cac ass bul.

That's what happened to Jewish ex in 2011, she got accepted to Peace Corp in Peru and went but if the relationship was going good she wouldn't have left

 

[Bless't]

That's what happened to Jewish ex in 2011, she got accepted to Peace Corp in Peru and went but if the relationship was going good she wouldn't have left

Yo. Stop.