Coli said her standards are too high and she should settle though
So the tables have turned....
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Don't do it, reconsider! Read some Liter-ture on the subject
Imma catch hell for this one
So I official understand how men feel when a woman always bugs them about not texting and not calling as much as they would like. shyt is annoying.
Needy people are annoying.
I started talking to this man I met from tinder. He is 36 with 2 kids . The conversations we had started off great. I could be myself, it was just real chill. We vibed off of liking the same shows like power and just other random stuff. And for once I finally came across a respectable man that wasn't talking sexual to me. Cool...
So we take our conversation to the phone. And every time I talk to him he starts whining when I have to go. As if Im supposed to not have shyt to do. I'm the type of person that doesn't like to talk on the phone in front of other people. So when I talk on the phone I like to be alone and free to talk (especially for new people)
So I finally met this man and we went on a movie date at one of those places that serves food while watching the movie. I had a nice time and I thanked him several times for taking me out. Every since that night which was the 26th of sept. We have texted and talked a couple times.
Now this guy keeps acting like he hasn't heard from me as if we haven't talked or texted since.
He works either 8 or 12 hr shifts where he is home around midnight
Am I tripping for not feeling like talking on the phone then?
Could this guy have a possessive trait about him.
I'm absolutely terrible at detecting RED FLAGS
When I was single father it was the other way around I be too busy wanting to spend time with my kids
He may have long shifts and pay child support but i be trying to contact my kids often then contact u when I'm free
As far as the age gap goes everybody has a preference
U having no kids
I'm of the sense of a single parent can date someone without kids but it's harder cuz most don't understand what it's like raising kids or wanna be around them often that they feel they should be priority which ain't happening but there are some who get it and respect and it works out
True it would be easier for u to date someone with no kids but if u don't mind people with kids there is gonna be a time where tables gonna turn and they ain't gonna contact u often cuz of the obligation to their kid and could u deal with that
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I never thought about that. This is why I need to ask the coli more about shyt like thisLong shifts is another not-shyt nikka tactic....they need blocks of time with good explanations to be away to juggle women
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Thank you for your advice breh
AlSo have you asked why he's a single dad?
Whatever you do don't have sex with him, that nikka will poke a hole in the condom to try to lock you down!!!!
My sister, I fear ye may hath pressed too much with this fellow. You speaketh that he be 36 and ye 26. This garners great concern within mine heart. The fellow presses ye so because he hast lived a life and hath received 2 children into his bosom, yet he haveth not a wife. This is not the will of the Lord our Father which is in Heaven.
Therefore, he seeketh an expeditious and serious courtship with you, my friend. He haveth not much time left to spare so it be to him that he must findeth himself a wife and settle down at once.
I pray ye cease this relationship at once for I know the Lord God hath greater things in store for you if ye wouldst only trust Him and rely not on thy own understanding. Whenceforth thou shalt surely find what ye seek. God bless you.
Therefore, he seeketh an expeditious and serious courtship with you, my friend. He haveth not much time left to spare so it be to him that he must findeth himself a wife and settle down at once.
I pray ye cease this relationship at once for I know the Lord God hath greater things in store for you if ye wouldst only trust Him and rely not on thy own understanding. Whenceforth thou shalt surely find what ye seek. God bless you.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
He's divorced. his reason is that when he would work out of town his wife would spend the money on random shyt instead of paying the bills. He got married at 23 because he got his wife pregnant. He did say he loved her as well. That's all I know about her.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
thankshe still go to the club. And I no this because he told me he went the night before our date. How is he a hoe but clingy?As @PeridotPuss hinted, he might be a hoe
Does he still love her? Cause that's slippery. I guess it makes sense why he's divorced, still be careful.
Drake is God
Sweeterman
The female posters responses in this thread would be very different if this was a 36 yr old woman with two kids.
:waitwhat:
I have her on ignore so I couldn't see it.As @PeridotPuss hinted, he might be a hoe