So They Have Preset Messages For Women To Send On Bumble Now?

[Illuminatos]

Just got matched up with this beautiful chick on Bumble, I get the notification and go to the app and see this woman sent me a preset “opening move” message talking about “What’s your dream destination?”.
The whole gimmick of Bumble is that women send the first message. Is a “Hi handsome” first message to nerve-wracking for them? If she looks good enough no normal dude is going to give a damn.

Yeah this is a minor thing but it’s ridiculous how female centered these dating apps are.

Spoiler

Meanwhile I still can’t filter out butches by weight or # of kids.

 

[CopiousX]

To be fair, most dudes are running an algorithm too.

For me personally all text conversations are just copy paste. Why fix something that ain't broken?

 

[Barlow]

i thought all dating apps had this regardless of gender? thats what i remember the last time i used them

 

[Sk3ptical]

At using a dating site

 

[TRUEST]

After a while you’ll realize only aint sh1t folks use apps

 

[Dont@Me]

After a while you’ll realize only aint sh1t folks use apps

Well I use em, so you must be right

 

[HabitualChiller]

Women are notoriously shít at starting a dialogue with men they take a romantic interest in. It's comical at this point.

The more dating-savvy men usually just copy and paste a slick opener, but that's different because it requires some thought.

If those auto-replies weren't a thing, you'd get a "hi" or a "Hello. How are you?"

To keep it a bean, you should be grateful that she even had the presence of mind to send that

 

[3rdWorld]

I have been known to chain send the same hey morning, to several women..

 

[TheMailMan]

Dating apps 2025 are something else.
Must love to travel
Apply pressure
Soft girl era
Lol what's going on. These girls don't to date they want a sugar daddy

 

[drederick tatum]

I don't know how some of y'all make it thru the day, much less trying to date

 

[Illuminatos]

Messaged her with an answer to the prompt and was gonna send her a slick follow up message immediately after only to find out they limit me to 1 message at a time.

 

[MikelArteta]

Messaged her with an answer to the prompt and was gonna send her a slick follow up message immediately after only to find out they limit me to 1 message at a time.

1 msg a day keeps the dr away

 

[Illuminatos]

1 msg a day keeps the dr away

Conversation expires in 2 hours and she hasn't responded.

 

[cyndaquil]

The worst way to meet people but also the most widely used.

 

[Ohene]

They pretty much have taken out any effort women have to make when it comes to dating and then ppl wonder why shyt is how it is

- they dont gotta leave home
- they dont have to approach
- they dont have to swipe
- they dont have to type a message if they match a dude
- they dont gotta pay for anything if they agree to go out
- the man plans the date
- if they do leave home, the man has to pick em up or call em an uber

If you don’t have to invest in something why would you appreciate it. Let it sink in