Scustin Bieburr
Baby baybee baybee UUUGH
Online dating is just a form of ego boost for 90% of the women on the platforms. They just want to see if they're attractive to men that they would consider attractive. There's little if any intention on actually going through with dating that man. A lot of the time when I'd use the apps I'd see shyt like "looking for friends only!"
Men are raised to believe that their value to the world is their intelligence, strength(physical and mental) and creativity.
Women are raised to believe their value to the world is their looks(something they have limited control over) and attitude(something that can change due to adverse life events girls are more likely to experience e.g. sexual assault/unwanted attention)
Theres no such thing as "smooth game" for women. There's no billion dollar "alpha woman" cottage industry teaching women which lines to memorize so they don't "scare off" potential dates or give them the confidence to approach men. Female incels aren't women who no matter what they try can't get a man to go out with them, they're women who are depressed because men don't approach them the way they approach their friends and relatives.
So I'm entirely unsurprised that they lack creativity or interest when actually trying to approach a man. Men are taught they can negotiate interest out of a woman and convince her with clever words to give him a chance. Women are not taught such a lesson and it doesn't exist in the culture at large. The majority of advice directed at women involves how to keep a man once he's already expressed interest, not how to approach a man and make him interested through words.
Men are raised to believe that their value to the world is their intelligence, strength(physical and mental) and creativity.
Women are raised to believe their value to the world is their looks(something they have limited control over) and attitude(something that can change due to adverse life events girls are more likely to experience e.g. sexual assault/unwanted attention)
Theres no such thing as "smooth game" for women. There's no billion dollar "alpha woman" cottage industry teaching women which lines to memorize so they don't "scare off" potential dates or give them the confidence to approach men. Female incels aren't women who no matter what they try can't get a man to go out with them, they're women who are depressed because men don't approach them the way they approach their friends and relatives.
So I'm entirely unsurprised that they lack creativity or interest when actually trying to approach a man. Men are taught they can negotiate interest out of a woman and convince her with clever words to give him a chance. Women are not taught such a lesson and it doesn't exist in the culture at large. The majority of advice directed at women involves how to keep a man once he's already expressed interest, not how to approach a man and make him interested through words.
