Young women absolutely love the stoic, emotionally unavailable act. The craziest I ever had any girl fawn over me was senior year of high school when I insisted that I wasn't looking for anything serious. I was heading to college 5 hours away and she was a junior. I really wasn't going to try to pretend like that shyt would work. The girl legitimately told me she had her entire life to make me happy -- in high school. The more unavailable I became, the hungrier and more determined she got. Dude knows his audience and what they want.
A girl like that?
She doesnt want a guy she can actually have. Yeah, she's a bird but she's an attractive one. 99.99% of the heterosexual men she comes across would instantly make her their number one priority if she said, "Hi." Young girls -- especially attractive ones -- want to chase and be taken on emotional rollercoasters. They play games, and regardless of the hurt, doey eyes, dudes refusal to commit only makes her like him more. It's childish, but it's called "the game" for a reason. The minute he committs is the minute she goes looking for the next colt to tame. The vlogging is corny but he isn't wrong in not locking her down. He wants to keep her infatuated because she's cute and the sex is probay good. More importantly, she also isn't the type of woman you should want to be the mother of your child. She's clearly a bird and they both know exactly what they're getting.
"I never made it official." As long as the woman can date other people too I don't care about these type of situations. But then usually the dude trying to keep you to himself. It's mad selfish and I hate when they do that type of shyt. But it's a lesson you gotta learn. You are not together if you both don't have a real conversation about it.
#thesearethebreaks
