So, this dude discovers that his wife did 10-20 adult movies before they were married

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:laugh: @ " between 10-20 movies " :ohmy: bytch probably did around 30

:wow: only at 19
 

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Would it be different if I was a son and my dad giving that same advice?

I'll wait for your answer.

It would be no different if he was a man but the point im getting at is your dad is setting you up to be the leader of the house and to find a man who is not a boss because how can a man take your money and your house and your prized possessions unless hes coming in as someone who isnt a boss? If you worked at Walmart and your man was a billionare i doubt you'd come to him with these same documents. I think its going to be hard for you out there with this attitude. Do you want to be with a leader, or a follower, friend?
 

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It would be no different if he was a man but the point im getting at is your dad is setting you up to be the leader of the house and to find a man who is not a boss because how can a man take your money and your house and your prized possessions unless hes coming in as someone who isnt a boss? If you worked at Walmart and your man was a billionare i doubt you'd come to him with these same documents. I think its going to be hard for you out there with this attitude.

:comeon:

I don't believe this at all.
 

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if a man signs the prenup his fiancee gives him, he's a punk. prenups should be negotiated.
 

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Why not? Doesnt a man have to not be an earner to take your capital? I hope you dont call your husband wifey. :skip:

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Just because of that I'm trying to be the man of the house? :whew:

:snoop: I don't know what's so threatening about a female that knows all the avenues so she doesn't get caught in the cold.

I believe in relationship equality. Right now, I'm working on my career so when I do get married I'm able to contribute financially so the burden doesn't have to be all on my husband.

He's raising me to be a woman that could be single and happy & married and happy.

But I would never call my husband wifey and I wouldn't expect him to call me hubby.

Please proceed, my friend :smugbiden:
 

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:whoa:

Just because of that I'm trying to be the man of the house? :whew:

:snoop: I don't know what's so threatening about a female that knows all the avenues so she doesn't get caught in the cold.

I believe in relationship equality. Right now, I'm working on my career so when I do get married I'm able to contribute financially so the burden doesn't have to be all on my husband.

He's raising me to be a woman that could be single and happy & married and happy.

But I would never call my husband wifey and I wouldn't expect him to call me hubby.

Please proceed, my friend :smugbiden:
:scusthov: I hope you find a husband who is a BOSS and stay together forever. Its cold on the streets for divorced women who walk around with prenups in their back pocket and detrimental for children who grow up in single parent homes. Was your dad a player?
 

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if a man signs the prenup his fiancee gives him, he's a punk. prenups should be negotiated.

Exactly, it's just a template. I'm not going to drop a pre-nup and give him a deal. :youngsabo:

I grew up around family law, I know the procedures it includes :shaq2:
 

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:scusthov: I hope you find a husband who is a BOSS and stay together forever. Its cold on the streets for divorced women who walk around with prenups in their back pocket and detrimental for children who grow up in single parent homes. Was your dad a player?

You guys look at one thing and attack that without reading anything else. Please read my previous posts.

He was not a player, he was in my life for the majority of it before I moved back to my hometown.
I was surrounded by tons of father figures as well in my life and I've seen how their women took everything they had and more so I'm trying to look out for myself.


Edit: Oh you were going to say because my dad was a player this is the reason I'm like this. A couple of reasons why I'm like this because the only person looking out for you is yourself.
 

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You guys look at one thing and attack that without reading anything else. Please read my previous posts.

He was not a player, he was in my life for the majority of it before I moved back to my hometown.
I was surrounded by tons of father figures as well in my life and I've seen how their women took everything they had and more so I'm trying to look out for myself.


Edit: Oh you were going to say because my dad was a player this is the reason I'm like this. A couple of reasons why I'm like this because the only person looking out for you is yourself.

You arent a man though. What is a man going to take from his woman?
 
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