So we don’t ask women to be in a relationship anymore?

[Sterling Archer]

Your girl is supposed to prove herself why u should disregard your options and settle down with 1 chick

It goes both ways but still. I agree with your point.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I told my girl we was in a relationship

how sweet

my husband did this i was like ok


My ex asked me though

it depends though like were you shocked; taken off guard or it were you like "ohh ok"

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Act like a woman asking "...so what are we?" hasnt been a thing for as long as youve been alive.

If I or any woman for that matter has to ask... then


I think for the most part, in the past the men I've dated they would ask me or pretty much tell me that we are together.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

how sweet




it depends though like were you shocked; taken off guard or it were you like "ohh ok"

Yea I honestly told both my girls this. Look if we made it that far and I’m already fukking raw. Ima tell you so you know where you stand

 

[TheCPA]

Women are way more connected to their emotion than us, some men always forget about this or try to reinvent the wheel. There's no point of asking a women for relationship if she dont bring this up. Matter of fact, never show any attachment to a woman unless she did it first. I've never had problems with women and i never wasted my time either with this mindset.

If you pump her good and she feel stimulated when she's around you, you won't even have to worry about relationship or not. Do your part and she'll do her part when times is right.

Looking needy or too quick to settle is one of the biggest mistake that kill your chance. Don't be a pimp, but act like one.

 

[Sterling Archer]

If I or any woman for that matter has to ask... then


I think for the most part, in the past the men I've dated they would ask me or pretty much tell me that we are together.

I believe most people just have an understanding that you are together and only hear the words when they are referred to a third party as "my girl/man". When you know you spend as much time together that there isnt a way for them to be dating another person, is when you realize you are in a relationship. But some people make it a point to ask either directly or like I mentioned earlier. Theres no right or wrong to it at this point. These arent traditional women or men.

 

[semicko82]

No of course not

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Yea I honestly told both my girls this. Look if we made it that far and I’m already fukking raw. Ima tell you so you know where you stand

Both?

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Both?

Lol I mean my 2 girl friends in my life. I’ve only been in 2 relationships

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I believe most people just have an understanding that you are together and only hear the words when they are referred to a third party as "my girl/man". When you know you spend as much time together that there isnt a way for them to be dating another person, is when you realize you are in a relationship. But some people make it a point to ask either directly or like I mentioned earlier. Theres no right or wrong to it at this point. These arent traditional women or men.

And there you have it! But let me ask you this, say if a woman goes on dates with a man and it's all good but they both agree they're open to a relationship but don't want to rush head first. As time progresses, it seems like they are. So should the man or woman ask if they are to get clarity or does it matter?

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Lol I mean my 2 girl friends in my life. I’ve only been in 2 relationships

Ohhh, got it!

 

[hatealot]

my husband did this i was like ok


My ex asked me though

Your husband assumed the sale from you.

You didn't have a choice lol. j/k I'm sure you had intentions to be with him also and didn't feel forced ?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Wake up out of a coma from 1985, brehs

Op playing with a rulebook made pre-internet

 

[bill riser]

Hell no

I’ve never asked to be in a relationship. Im fine with just smashing then the woman hits me with the “what are we”.

If I think she’s worthy of a relationship I say okay but this is what I want xyz out of a relationship so make sure if that’s what u really want

If I think she’s good for nothing I lie & tell her “I just got outta bad situation/I need time to think” just to lead them on for more sex

until they get tired of it and move on or I have to ghost them . Asking to be in a relationship first as a man is begging to get played by a woman whose only lukewarm about you.

There’s been like 1 girl I straight up told your never gonna be nothing but a sperm wastebin for me so don’t get comfortable, in those words. She was begging me for a relationship.She did not take that well but she stayed around for a while.

I stand firm that a man should be seeking power, money & success first; women seek relationships, stability & love. If your a man actively looking for relationships on some Disney Channel shyt your likely the type of dude to get cheated on. If you ask first, it puts you in the weaker position; and the woman in a position of power. No thanks.

I was gonna write pretty much what you said but you beat me to the punch.
I agree whole heartedly. as a man you should always be looking to better yourself in all aspects like you mentioned. the only thing i will do is ask her out and date her. But, I NEVER ask her to be in a committed relationship. That's a woman's job.

 

[bill riser]

Double post