So what exactly is the reason that getting with a girl with a kid is so bad

[Poitier]

It's nothing wrong with it but it takes a person with a small ego/ no insecurity to do it
Most Black people don't want to promote being no sucka. Even if promoting that wifing single mothers is ok would lead to more Black families


Black Woman with kids are sluts only good for smashing. fukk the little fatherless b*stards

 

[Malik]

To quote a great and influential scholar, "I don't play nikkas saved games"

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

Depends on the situation I'm not gonna come in here and cape for ppl with shytty decision making skills...

and I'm def not gonna reward shytty behavior.. but it would depend on the context... personally I want to start my family from scratch.. if it doesn't work out and I have kids.. then I don't mind getting with a woman with kids.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

If you're a man with no kids dating a women with kids

-It takes the spontaneity out of the relationship. You have to really plan everything. Her kid is her first priority and that sucks especially when you're young, just trying to have fun and not looking to raise a kid yet.
-At some point you're going to become the step father if the relationship is progressing.
-Baby father drama may or may not happen......but it is something you'll have to deal with.

Why the fukk would any man who has something going for himself want to deal with that when he can deal with plenty of other women without kids. If you're looking to settle down and have a family tho right away, go right ahead tho. I personally want to start my own family and do things the "right" way.

 

[Malik]

Unless yall nikkas 30 and over, you shouldn't be thinking about dating women with kids. I could see if you was 35 years old. Nikka you old, time to let a couple requirements go. But most of yall nikkas like 24, 25, 26, 27. If you in a major city, its hella childless chicks walking around.

 

[Dooby]

Women are so irresponsible with these kids. It's sad that there are so many single mothers. It's almost funny...until I realize I have to wade through this shyt to find a DECENT female. I mean, females are hyper critical but what do females really bring to the table? What do they bring? Can anyone answer me this?

 

[Dooby]

Unless yall nikkas 30 and over, you shouldn't be thinking about dating women with kids. I could see if you was 35 years old. Nikka you old, time to let a couple requirements go. But most of yall nikkas like 24, 25, 26, 27. If you in a major city, its hella childless chicks walking around.

I beg to differ, breh. I beg to differ.

 

[Malik]

I beg to differ, breh. I beg to differ.

Where do you live, if you don't mind me asking.

 

[Danny Up]

Only thing that would ever have me stressed out is a gun in my face.

Not sure why women stress you dudes out so much.

Why be stressed about it. He either gonna do it or he ain't.

 

[Danny Up]

If you're a man with no kids dating a women with kids

-It takes the spontaneity out of the relationship. You have to really plan everything. Her kid is her first priority and that sucks especially when you're young, just trying to have fun and not looking to raise a kid yet.
-At some point you're going to become the step father if the relationship is progressing.
-Baby father drama may or may not happen......but it is something you'll have to deal with.

Why the fukk would any man who has something going for himself want to deal with that when he can deal with plenty of other women without kids. If you're looking to settle down and have a family tho right away, go right ahead tho. I personally want to start my own family and do things the "right" way.

Why deal with any woman at all? A single woman may have a career? She may be hung up on her ex? Her friends say you ain't cute enough. Her parents say you ain't good enough. She might be a junkie. She mighr be a psycho.

 

[Sterling Archer]

Because I deserve better.

 

[Nintendough]

I don't play saved games on refurbished systems.

 

[Will Ross]

A question like this should not even be asked.
If a dude wants to date a woman with kids that is cool. But asking dudes why they don't want a woman with kids is just stupid.

 

[Danny Up]

To quote a great and influential scholar, "I don't play nikkas saved games"

That's the dumbest line ever. You basically saying you a bytch nikka. "I can't play this game. Mike Mike gone fukk me up. Scaryass nikkas.


And anyway whether a bytch got a kid or not, chances are her :heart: & "p*ssy" belongs to another nikka. shyt that nikka have saved it but I took over where he left off and mastered that shyt.

 

[Mindfield333]

Cause more often then not the girl was wild n reckless in her young years...wifing her up wit a kid give her validation that she made the right decision to be loose young n look for a "real man" wen she older...not to mention you taking care of another nikka kid..

having a kid automatically means a chick was "loose"? lol

as for this thread, its to each his own... i cant do a chick with more than 1 seed at this point in my life.