So what exactly is the reason that getting with a girl with a kid is so bad

[Malik]

That's the dumbest line ever. You basically saying you a bytch nikka. "I can't play this game. Mike Mike gone fukk me up. Scaryass nikkas.


And anyway whether a bytch got a kid or not, chances are her :heart: & "p*ssy" belongs to another nikka. shyt that nikka have saved it but I took over where he left off and mastered that shyt.

Whatever makes you feel better

 

[Danny Up]

Whatever makes you feel better

I feel great. I'm not a delusional idiot. Can't say the same about you.

 

[Mindfield333]

Women are so irresponsible with these kids. It's sad that there are so many single mothers. It's almost funny...until I realize I have to wade through this shyt to find a DECENT female. I mean, females are hyper critical but what do females really bring to the table? What do they bring? Can anyone answer me this?

i always felt like, if i dont want kids i should use protection. maybe if more dudes thought that way thigs would be different

"the condom was for me, i aint tryna protect em" - Graph

 

[Malik]

I feel great. I'm not a delusional idiot. Can't say the same about you.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

-because that shyt is lame.
-because I don't wanna adjust my schedule according to ANYONE, not even a fukking kid
-because kids are annoying
-because i don't even want a hint of me trying to play a daddy role to permeate this bytch's brain
-because the internet
-because I wanna fukk 2-3 times in 1 night without you worrying if your little one is still breathing
-because I am biased against stretch marks
-basketball reasons
-because that lil fukker probably blew your vagina out the frame during child birth
-because young, childless bytches have this unspeakable, invisible, yet noticeable energy that gets my dikk harder
-because older, childless bytches have this unspeakable, invisible, yet noticeable energy that gets my dikk harder
-because i don't wanna muffle your mama's screams with a pillow with i put the dack all the way in, bytch
-because i'm trying to fukk on that dining room table
-because i don't wanna trip over some kid's dirty ass transformers/dora book bag
-because your annoying ass is delaying my dack getting suck
-because I'm selfish, lil nugga
-because your existence is compromising part of my freedom too
-because I just don't give a fukk about motherfukkas that don't share DNA with me

 

[Dooby]

Where do you live, if you don't mind me asking.

DC

 

[Malik]

DC

I live in DC too

 

[Trillion]

do what you want

 

[Ineedmoney504]

cause i dont want another nikka responsibility on me

 

[philmonroe]

Depends on the situation I'm not gonna come in here and cape for ppl with shytty decision making skills...

and I'm def not gonna reward shytty behavior.. but it would depend on the context... personally I want to start my family from scratch.. if it doesn't work out and I have kids.. then I don't mind getting with a woman with kids.

Bold is me too.

If you're a man with no kids dating a women with kids

-It takes the spontaneity out of the relationship. You have to really plan everything. Her kid is her first priority and that sucks especially when you're young, just trying to have fun and not looking to raise a kid yet.
-At some point you're going to become the step father if the relationship is progressing.
-Baby father drama may or may not happen......but it is something you'll have to deal with.

Why the fukk would any man who has something going for himself want to deal with that when he can deal with plenty of other women without kids. If you're looking to settle down and have a family tho right away, go right ahead tho. I personally want to start my own family and do things the "right" way.

All of this 100.

Unless yall nikkas 30 and over, you shouldn't be thinking about dating women with kids. I could see if you was 35 years old. Nikka you old, time to let a couple requirements go. But most of yall nikkas like 24, 25, 26, 27. If you in a major city, its hella childless chicks walking around.

shyt you don't have to do it even your 30's maybe into your 40's if you wait that long. It seems like its not but its still alot of chicks that don't have kids even in their late 20's/30's

 

[Killer Instinct]

If I'm talking to a chick and it comes to light that she has a kid, I lose all interest. Goes from first rounder to undrafted with the quickness. I don't knock those who choose to play that role, but it's nothing I'm interested doing.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Dating chicks with kids had made me question the world sometimes to be honest. It's made me realize my upbringing wasn't the same as everyone else's.

I know when my mom had me, we were like a real family and I was the priority. She went to work, came home, cooked dinner, made my lunch and focused on ME. She wasn't in the club regularly, sneaking out of her boyfriend's crib to smoke weed and fukk nikkas in cars, hanging out all hours of the night and shyt......That's what some of these girls who have kids in their 20s are doing. It just makes you question how they're raising their kid and why the fukk you would even think about starting a family with them. I dunno, maybe I'm old school but I think by the time you have your kid all the partying and wilding out should be out of your system......

If the other reasons I gave for not dating single mothers don't convince you, this should.

 

[Taadow]

-because that shyt is lame.
-because I don't wanna adjust my schedule according to ANYONE, not even a fukking kid
-because kids are annoying
-because i don't even want a hint of me trying to play a daddy role to permeate this bytch's brain
-because the internet
-because I wanna fukk 2-3 times in 1 night without you worrying if your little one is still berating
-because I am biased against stretch marks
-basketball reasons
-because that lil fukker probably blew your vagina out the frame during child birth
-because young, childless bytches have this unspeakable, invisible, yet noticeable energy that gets my dikk harder
-because older, childless bytches have this unspeakable, invisible, yet noticeable energy that gets my dikk harder
-because i don't wanna muffle your mama's screams with a pillow with i put the dack all the way in, bytch
-because i'm trying to fukk on that dining room table
-because i don't wanna trip over some kid's dirty ass transformers/dora book bag
-because your annoying ass is delaying my dack getting suck
-because I'm selfish, lil nugga
-because your existence is compromising part of my freedom too
-because I just don't give a fukk about motherfukkas that don't share DNA with me
-because dammit muffucca I bought some M&Ms because I wanted some. Ya mama shoulda gave you some money for some.

I added one, but yeah.

 

[Coast'in]

I know people say if the biological father is in the kids life only thing you would have to worry about is the potential drama with him but I don't agree. I think it's that and more.

If your relationship with the female progresses the kids may grow more fond of you, and you may be compelled to do nice things for them (Pay for a video game, pay registration fee for youth sports, buy school supplies, etc.)

Help the mother get the kid a car if his dad isn't in the picture.

As, the kid grows older they may resent certain things and challenge you at points in life. Typical rebellion for growing teens leads to even more turmoil if the kid doesn't respect you, or doesn't see you as an authority figure. This can lead the kid to go to his biological father for backing, if you try to instill discipline in your household. This could then put a strain on the relationship with the mother as she deals with child's father being angry at her for letting you discipline "their" son.

If she's had kid(s) she may not want to have anymore (You will have no biological children).

Lack of alone time (with work and a child or children it leaves little time for you and the mother. You're also spending money on a babysitter, just so you can spend a night on the town with the mother.)

Having a the kid jump in bed with you and the mother in the middle because they're scared..... I'm sure there is more, but that's all I got now.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Women are so irresponsible with these kids. It's sad that there are so many single mothers. It's almost funny...until I realize I have to wade through this shyt to find a DECENT female. I mean, females are hyper critical but what do females really bring to the table? What do they bring? Can anyone answer me this?

There are a lot of chicks running around with kids no doubt...but if you really look around your city you might be amazed at the lowkey number that don't have any. And they aren't all messed up in the head.