So when did paying for the P become cool,,,

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how long you think you gonna have to trick until you meet a woman who likes you?
I thought you were joking. I was talking about back in the day. You never had to buy it for real. As far as them liking me, all women liked me. You have it backwards. The problem was finding one that you could take home to family. And I'm not talking about the ones who only looked good.
 
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What do you mean?

Just because you spot someone that looks good and they say yes, doesnt mean you can truly gel with them.
I find people dont actually like each other or have feelings, its all forced so you can be with someone. In many cases in couples, one is always more into it all then the other party.
 

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I don't think it was ever cool and will ever be cool. If anything, it's now just seen as "it is what it is". It's not frowned upon, but it's not praised either.

Another poster said it well. There's a difference between being a "trick nikka" and "tricking". The former are dudes that can't get any buns/the buns they want unless they trick off. The latter is more so the act of tricking off. Once sex and the woman's body became commodified, then the flood gates opened.

That's why you have some dudes who you wouldn't consider tricks go to places like DR or Vegas for the weekend to smash chicks like it's a sport.

This topic obviously depends on location as different cultures see this differently.
 

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This whole screwed up system of dating the American way seems to be finally coming to a head. That's what we're witnessing. Plus the number of dumbbells who use to defend the so-called traditional way of spending money on women without getting any, seems to have shrunken. I guess that 2008 crash became a wake-up call to them sooner or later.

You really have no business buying a woman you hardly know dinner no way, or unless she really needed it, and you wasn't doing it for sex. Other than that, that's for your wife.
 
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