So when you say "I won't mess with a chick whose dated a white guy before"...

Ronnie Lott

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Are you serious? I hear it on here all the time from fools :pachaha:but I also have several friends who are adamant about not entertaining any woman who has fukked with white dudes before.

There's also a similar sentiment among white dudes, fair amount of white guys get hesitant if they find out the girl they're talking to has fukked with black guys before.

But yall are on here looking at black women who have been with a white guy like :scust: I just want to know where the insecurity comes from, I'm trying to understand.

Why do you keep framing this as an "insecurity" :what:
 

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Other races of men won't fool with their women if they found out they've dated out their race so why shouldn't Black men? Especially when ours usually disrespects us and will boast about dating out then come crying back once they're realized they were nothing but a fetish to satisfy.

And that's insecure and racist of them. Those are people defining a woman by the race of the men she's dated, you got some serious issues if you do that. I get defining a girl because she's been with a ton of guys or because every guy she dates is a high school dropout or some shyt like that, but just because she dated someone that's not the same race as them? :stopitslime:
 

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No I would date a black woman who had slept/dated a non blackman i wouldn't date a black woman who had a preference for non blackmen first I love/lust black women like no other so on some ego shyt I want to be with a black woman who feels the same way towards black men second using my logic knowing more times then not when she finds another man attractive I don't resemble him at all when she fantasies about other men they don't look like me so basically if I was in her situation having a preference for black women like she had for non blackmen I would be sexual unsatisfied and would break things off rather than cheat so i think she would have the same feelings also so thinking things like this out I would not participate in the first step of a relationship i.e dating knowing my perceived outcome then again I am a very sexual person so other people might not find it so hard some might call it being insecure or even paranoid but I think of it having a preference about dating and having logic all be it my on logic but having logic for that preference I know nikka can you use punctuation

I can understand this. I'd be pretty uncomfortable as a white guy dating a women who I knew preferred other races. I'm more confused by these fools who think a woman is instantly contaminated the minute she fukks with somebody outside her race. shyt is :dahell:worthy
 

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Why do you keep framing this as an "insecurity" :what:

Because I think it's extremely insecure behavior. I first peeped it when I saw how some of my white friends reacted to it. One of my homies actually deaded it with a potential girl because he found out her ex was black which led him to find out she dated a couple black dudes along with a couple white guys.

Then I come on here and see how you guys act and I see that same insecurity. If it's not insecurity please tell me what feeling it is?
 

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Go look at that post again. I was rephrasing what somebody else said to show them how ridiculous of a thought that is. Context helps my friend
 

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Because I think it's extremely insecure behavior. I first peeped it when I saw how some of my white friends reacted to it. One of my homies actually deaded it with a potential girl because he found out her ex was black which led him to find out she dated a couple black dudes along with a couple white guys.

Then I come on here and see how you guys act and I see that same insecurity. If it's not insecurity please tell me what feeling it is?

It has nothin to do with insecurity when black dudes don't wana date bw who have dated white dudes.

Question: what would a black dude have to feel insecure about? Please answer this :beli:
 
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Can't respect a woman who will be in a relationship with her oppressor :manny:

Insecurity has nothing to do with it

Jumping to that conclusion just because she gave ol Jeff from Sociology a shot sure does seem insecure to me, I'm schleep tho
 

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Jumping to that conclusion just because she gave ol Jeff from Sociology a shot sure does seem insecure to me, I'm schleep tho
Why would I want a woman who would lay with the same race of people that has brutalized her people for 500 years? :heh:

shyt is disgraceful to me. I don't care if a BW dates others races like Hispanics or Asians It disgusts me when she dates her oppressor.
 

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Jumping to that conclusion just because she gave ol Jeff from Sociology a shot sure does seem insecure to me, I'm schleep tho

Are you trolling or playing dumb?

We're not talkin about just a "shot" we're talking about a black chick being in a romantic relationship with a white dude.
 
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