So, why are you single?

[Tommy Knocks]

I got dumped over the weekend and I still don't even know why. She just said "you don't care about me anyways" I'm like nah not true. Then I'm like so why you pushing me away? She says "Isn't that what you want?" I'm like when did I say that? She's like it's your action, however when I call her....she's busy with her start up business, and I'm not the type of dude to be calling some chick every hour. Then she text me "I am hurt", I'm like nikka you the one that dumped ME!!!! Then when I text back " can I at least get a reason?" she writes "we'll discuss about it later". I'm like ok, well, you're not talking so you clearly want me to leave you alone, she's like "it's what you want" and then something about "I respected you alot, maybe it's a misunderstand or something I dont know". wtf kind of woman code is this? wtf is she talking about It's like she has something to say, and wont say it. like she heard something (no I have not cheated, but I wouldnt be surprised if a hater lied to her) but cant come out and say it, and I can't defend myself if I get no clues.

I should be hella sad, but this whole episode turned me off so bad, I dont even care, haven't even hit her up. I can't deal with someone that doesn't want to communicate, open your stupid fukking mouth and tell me what is going on.

anyways....and that is why I'm single.

 

[Illuminatos]

I'm too damn quiet and a little self conscious.

 

[ch15x]

My area sucks, which influences the type of ladies in the dating pool...

That's what "Eros" is for...

 

[Michael9100]

Women's standards are a tad bit too high....

 

[MikelArteta]

You have no idea what is on my checklist so why make assumptions?

C'mon nikka, thats common sense, if you need a checklist for THAT, you are a dumbass.

I'm talking about these anal checklist nikkaz and bytches be having that are super high and impossible for any human to meet. Shyt like body of Adonis PHD educated ex convict thug at the helm of a multimillion dollar drug empire w/ a nice smile, green eyes, and brown hair. Or nikkaz expecting Kim K with the brain of Michelle Obama

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Because I love being alone

I love it too much too.

I just feeling that the amount of women out there that can truly understand a man like me are almost non-existent.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

1. I'm broke
2. I'd rather get my financial and professional life in order (ie. find a good job where my bosses are actually trying to pay me and aren't trying to phuck me over)
3. Between social media, sites like okcupid, and the bar scene in 2013, I don't feel like "playing the game" anymore.
4. I just don't care...maybe it's because I'm old and life beat me up over the years...but ever since my last (and only) relationship 5 years ago...I just...don't.

I don't see myself ever getting married or even opening myself up to another woman in a relationship ever again and I couldn't care less.

I can relate to this so much

I've been focused on my career too but dating as a man takes way too much work, I find myself not wanting to play the game either.

 

[Dwolf]

Why? Cause fukk you thats why.

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

Niccas are still single? Thought it was known that chicks are never "single" (unless for obvious reasons) so men always gotta keep a read option on the roster. This is surprising to me...smh

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Simply haven't found the right one. But that could change very soon.

Sometimes I have days when I think the "right one" for me simply doesn't exist. If they did, I would of met them by now.

I feel like women are attracted to the idea of me, but not actually me. I just consider myself slept on.

I haven't found a woman that's genuinely into me. I mean, I see women looking at me and checking me out, but after so many failures with them in the past and being out of "the game" for so long, I honestly don't even know how to talk to them without losing their interest anymore. It's sad.

I never really had game. I never really was the one that women were into. When I was going out with a group of friends, my friends would always be the ones leaving with women, and I was almost always the one that just got the cold shoulder. That was in the past, when I was (arguably) more nerdier (I used to wear glasses), more socially awkward, and less desirable by the opposite sex.

I worked out, got rid of the glasses, got my looks together and improved myself, and women are interested in me now...but the sad thing is I feel I'm still stuck in that body and mind of that dude that would just get played all the time and had no respect from anybody. It took me years to regain my confidence, but being broke honestly destroys it.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

This is me.

I have friends, but most of the time I'm alone.

I feel like I have so much to offer, but no one wants to give me a chance.

That's the story of my life in one sentence. And I can not only apply that to women/potential GFs, but jobs, employers, opportunities, people, etc.

It's either than when people see me, they don't know what to make of me because they can't tell anything about me from first glance, they're intimidated by me, or they just think they got me figured out (when really they don't know me at all)...so I'd say over 80% of the time, I'm alone because of it.

 

[Marco Zen]

this some lame shyt. all these lame excuses why yall ain got no in-house p*ssy.

what some of us would GIVE to have those freedoms you have

fukkin girl problems??? ... I got 99 mfin problems and ...well u kno

 

[Poitier]

who this nikka? A small mental checklist or a physical is quite simple lil nikka. Its a useful for weeding out what you dont want and what you do want in a mate. ie Brains, beauty, intelligence, has4 different baby daddies etc. I know everything is imperfect but always shoot for the stars. You sound dumb in the game breh and knowing what you want has nothing to do with age

I agreed with everything you said, but I would say a "small" checklist isn't a checklist at all. You can look at someone or talk to someone for a certain amount of time and get a feel for them. Having a declarative checklist that you run through isn't needed. Even funnier, are the people that have "long" checklist.

 

[Poitier]

You have no idea what is on my checklist so why make assumptions?

Fair enough. You seem like a reasonable person, but usually I associate the word checklist with magazines that tell men and women to adopt unrealistic standards that no real human could ever satisfy, instead of being a bit more spontaneous and open.

I love it too much too.

I just feeling that the amount of women out there that can truly understand a man like me are almost non-existent.

You'd be surprised. You think TOO much.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

I love it too much too.

I just feeling that the amount of women out there that can truly understand a man like me are almost non-existent.

this.

I can't find a confident secure woman for the life of me. It seems almost every single woman out there is insecure. I start a relationship and right off the bat I'm labeled a player, without any proof or indication. I can be a little too 'chill' and it will get misinterpreted as me being distant or focused on other women.
no trick, some guys aren't drama kings, or need to yell or direct a girl everyday, some of us ARE actually laid back and 'easy' to deal with.

Man all a girl has to do is feed me and give me sex at night, and I'm pretty much bagged. I wont stray far, and for the most part if I get sex before I go out, I prolly wont even look at girls.

Girls seriously think it's more complex than that, but no, men are actually quite easy to please, it's their own minds that make it more complex than it is. They're so damn emotional.

-end rant.