So why is getting called "papi" acceptable, but "daddy" isn't?

[Oceanicpuppy]

OP said daddy too. Black women dont say daddy? Jesus. I even said in my initial post Ive been called daddy/zaddy by black women. Idk why ur hell bent on bringing up white women when this is about women in general.


Ur post wreaks of low self esteem.

You are reaching and kinda lost

I’ll spell it out for you.

Latin = papi = yes
Black = daddy = no

Now reread the thread title back to yourself.

You following now? Jesus ...

 

[MaxPain]

You are reaching and kinda lost

I’ll spell it out for you.

Latin = papi = yes
Black = daddy = no

Now reread the thread title back to yourself.

You following now? Jesus ...

What does that have to do with white women though?

U are the one thats lost.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

What does that have to do with white women though?

U are the one thats lost.

You are lost still.

9/10 most American men (no matter the race) are not picturing a black woman calling them papi.

 

[MaxPain]

You are lost still.

9/10 most American men (no matter the race) are not picturing a black woman calling them papi.

That still doesnt have anything to do with white women. Happy Valentines Day btw.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

That still doesnt have anything to do with white women. Happy Valentines Day btw.

Chiillld. Peace to you.

 

[MaxPain]

Chiillld. Peace to you.

No problem Mami

 

[Gully Bull]

Papi?

I tagged ya because I thought I saw a post about you being married to an afro Latino man. If this is the case, does his side of the family use it to on a consistent basis?

I dont think it has anything to do with daddy issues. My ex called me papi & she had a great relationship with her father. She had other issues though

I would agree with this part. I just see it as a pet name same way someone might use baby, lil mama etc. . Kinda seems like people jump to the assumption that she thinking of her father when shes having sex which is

i tell her shut the fukk up*

sex is supposed to be expressive though

 

[010101]

sex is supposed to be expressive though

i tell her shut her mouth let her puzzy sing me a song*

 

[Gully Bull]

The Coli is the only place where heterosexual men don’t like being called daddy from my observation. It’s crazy.

The papi thing is cool for a minute but eventually the novelty wears off if she’s always calling me that.

Right. It's a common noun that some people think means she wants him

"Oh she called me papi. "

Its Strange too I've Noticed Some Spanish Dudes Casually Call Dudes Papi too.... like... ''Me no Black Papi'' sammy sosa type stuff. never understood that.

See above. Gotta see the context of when it's said.

because papi sounds exotical

Do you feel that way because you aren't in an area with a large Latin populations ?

 

[Gully Bull]

If a woman uses daddy casually then I assume she was pimped out at one point or another.
Not sure what Spanish people using papi has to do with African Americans?

It's more so just noticing the last couple days of threads dealing with the term zaddy/daddy.

I don't like being called daddy so I definitely don't wanna be called one in another language

Which is how I see it. If I don't like it in one language I'm not gonna like it in another language.

 

[StarGirl]

I call any guy daddy. I’m lost

 

[Mowgli]

Latin women calling their father, cousins, uncle, grandfather papi but when a woman uses the term daddy to refer to you.. she has some underlying daddy issues? I honestly can't think of any women that call their father daddy.

Heard:
Dad
Pops
Father
Papi


But never daddy. Is it the perceived exoticness of the woman that makes it acceptable?

Papi sounds sexy and daddy sounds rapey

 

[Elle Driver]

I tagged ya because I thought I saw a post about you being married to an afro Latino man. If this is the case, does his side of the family use it to on a consistent basis?
I would agree with this part. I just see it as a pet name same way someone might use baby, lil mama etc. . Kinda seems like people jump to the assumption that she thinking of her father when shes having sex which is

sex is supposed to be expressive though

I’ve heard it used on they sons. They be calling they sons papi and whatnot but not to they man to my knowledge.

 

[MaxPain]

I call any guy daddy. I’m lost

Nah ur a good woman for that. Dont stop anytime soon and let the Coli corrupt u. Say Zaddy if u really want him to put it on him’

 

[Ol’Otis]

You are reaching and kinda lost

I’ll spell it out for you.

Latin = papi = yes
Black = daddy = no

Now reread the thread title back to yourself.

You following now? Jesus ...