So Women Really Think There Entitled To Marriage After....

[MaxPain]

Staying with a guy for a certain period of time, usually 2+ years

Is he SUPPOSED to get married to her?

I always see longtime couples and someone says “put a ring on it”.....

“U been with her this long, might as well put a ring on it”

As if she’s owed it....

If she cared that much, she’d make an ultimatum or propose, but most don’t.

If they broke up tommorrow, and he got married to a girl 6 months in that’s his choice (albeit a bad one)

Where is this line of entitlement coming from

 

[kdslittlebro]

Ultimatum?

 

[southern.girl]

And the guy is not entitled to waste her time. There's no need to stay in a dead end relationship.

 

[Wild self]

If a woman is not willing to prove, through actions, that she will be a sefless person, then no.....she doesnt deserve a run or even solid commitment.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

And the guy is not entitled to waste her time. There's no need to stay in a dead end relationship.

Who’s forcing her to stay though?

 

[Brock Landers]

Dont owe anybody shyt Women have all these expectations of marriage and relationships but when shyt goes south they want to blame everybody but themselves

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Simple analogy.

If I’m in a restaurant and I’m receiving bad service and yet I continue to stay, expecting it to get better but it gets worse, then I have no one to blame but myself. I saw the red flags but rather than take the initiative and leave, I hoped there would be light at the end of the tunnel.

If you’re in a long term relationship, and the man has clearly shown no signs of commitment, is it his fault for not proposing or yours for allowing yourself to stay in that relationship?

Unless the man lied and said he wants to marry you at some point (hence a proposal), at no point is anyone entitled to marriage.

 

[southern.girl]

Who’s forcing her to stay though?

She's probably staying out of naivety or perceived "lack of good black suitors."

 

[Humble (Not) Mike Tyson]

And the guy is not entitled to waste her time. There's no need to stay in a dead end relationship.

Marriage is the destination of every bond between men and women?

Not love and happiness? But, a legal protection from a breakup via alimony and child support?

If you're not happy +6 and no ring, what would you be happy in Year 9 after 3 years of the ring?

Spoiler

or, are we gonna cut the bullshyt and just get to the part where we admit women game "time" to get legal security???

I don't think ya'll realize how shady that sounds.

Marry me or that was no point to you.

 

[Loose]

fukk you dating someone if you not tryna get married for

 

[Humble (Not) Mike Tyson]

She's probably staying out of naivety or perceived "lack of good black suitors."

Or she and him had a good relationship outside of a legal proceeding

 

[ThrobbingHood]

She's probably staying out of naivety or perceived "lack of good black suitors."

Of course. Lack of accountability as always. Predictable.

 

[southern.girl]

Simple analogy.

If I’m in a restaurant and I’m receiving bad service and yet I continue to stay, expecting it to get better but it gets worse, then I have no one to blame but myself. I saw the red flags but rather than take the initiative and leave, I hoped there would be light at the end of the tunnel.

If you’re in a long term relationship, and the man has clearly shown no signs of commitment, is it his fault for not proposing or yours for allowing yourself to stay in that relationship?

Unless the man lied and said he wants to marry you at some point (hence a proposal), at no point is anyone entitled to marriage.

I know that you won't see it but black culture does not really teach women to look out for their best interest...at least not the chicks that are grouped in the "good girl" category. A lot of this "stand by your man at all costs" is preached with no nuance & women overstay a bad situation hoping that what she is going through is the "tough times" that people in happy relationships go through. We have to deprogram a lot.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm just here for the deflection answers and to laugh.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Who’s forcing her to stay though?

I think that’s the thing, no ones talking about force, people looking at the dude wondering why he would spend so much time with one woman and not propose

Like someone said earlier, it’s a waste of time unless y’all both not trying to get married and have an understanding. Not right to waste people’s time just because you don’t know what you want...