So you are feeling this girl/guy and they tell you they cheated on their ex......

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If they're being honest about it that's a positive thing. Just cause a significant other make themselves seem like an angel in their past don't exactly make it true. Rather be told the truth than be led astray
 

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I have sex with extra women but for the most part anyone that qualifies as s/o will know and accept that about me. Whether I end up doing that to her or not. But apparently I have other redeeming qualities that doesn't make it hard for me to be choosing.

Probably the only quality I look for in a woman that can't be overlooked is sexual and emotional fidelity. If a woman is telling me about it obviously she thinks it's somehow relavant and therefore it's not in the past it's something she's still working out in one way or another. shyts like a credit report, fukk up 6 years ago and leave it alone itll be forgotten forever soon start asking questions and unturning stones you just reset the clock. I want no parts of a woman dealing with that. She'd be better off keeping it herself.
 

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:mjlol: @ yall logic like the other hoe you decide on won't cheat because she never told you she did when yall met.

Something about making a mistake when you knew better, though. I can accept unforeseen error but I'm not going to go around looking for trouble.
 

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lol. what about the chicks that say "i broke up with him before i slept with another guy". these idiotic chicks really believe just because they broke up their current relationship to sleep with a new guy, that they're somehow free of being labeled a cheater. i tell u, the logic of people out there. male and female alike.
Well....by definition, that's not cheating :patrice:. I'd much rather a girl break up with me first, then to be fukking another nikka behind my back while I'm still claiming her. If we're broken up, what you do with your life is irrelevant to mine
 

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This is way people lie.


Not me :whoa:


I'm just saying, alot of yall probably boo'd up thinking its all good. With some dude or chick with a massive body count that cheated on like all there exes:heh:


You know what I noticed though, I don't think I've seen a female on the coli admit to cheating yet.:hmmm?:



I can understand why.... but are most of the men of the coli just really unlucky and get dogazz women?
 

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This is why when you go to a job interview or having a telephone interview and they ask "what could you have done better" DO NOT tell them anything negative about what you did.

Yes they want honesty but they're not looking to see how you've grown, they're trying to catch you out on your negative qualities. i.e. they are on the once a cheater always a cheater bandwagon.
 

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I have sex with extra women but for the most part anyone that qualifies as s/o will know and accept that about me.

Probably the only quality I look for in a woman that can't be overlooked is sexual and emotional fidelity.

How can you have opposite standards for yourself and s/o :patrice:
 

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It's not really opposite standards. The women I end up close to have things about men they find really important and I am able to fulfill . I have things I value from women. We simply value different things. Not all women think sexual fidelity is a deal breaker. A substantial portion expect extramarital/relationship activity from men and as long as other needs are filled they are ok.
 

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I'd still get with her, but if she cheats on me, i'd a) kick her to the curb b)blame myself.
 

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Well....by definition, that's not cheating :patrice:. I'd much rather a girl break up with me first, then to be fukking another nikka behind my back while I'm still claiming her. If we're broken up, what you do with your life is irrelevant to mine

many times it is cheating because ala emotional affair
 

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many times it is cheating because ala emotional affair
Yea i guess so :ehh:
I'm thinking in terms of me as a man & not from a woman's perspective. I could fukk a girl in a day without any emotional connection :manny:. Things are usually different for women
 
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