Been in the BDSM scene for 20 years, dominant men who want submissive women have no problem finding them. It sounds like you don't know what the fukk you're doing so submissive women aren't attracted to you. That's why you keeping making the same thread over and over again. Go get a seasoned "alpha" mentor, study the ways of the loving dominant, attend some dominant seminars, go to the munch meetings, you'll find your girl. Posting multiple threads about your inability to dominate a woman isn't going to help you find her.