Soliciting advice: How to treat a breh properly

[the bossman]

Reality is just like every woman is different, every dude is different as well. There is no one size fits all. except The biggest thing is take the time to learn your dude. What is his favorite cereal? favorite food? favorite tv show? favorite band/music artist? favorite drink? favorite sports team? etc. For example if he likes the Broncos, you don't have to become a football expert or anything, but even just knowing who they're about to play, or who the main quarterback is, and what time the game is would speak volumes. Especially if he knows you're not into football. suck his dikk during halftime. you will win MAJOR points by learning these things and showing you are all about him and not only yourself.

 

[J.E.T.S]

They told me

"You're selfish"

"You're disrespectful"

"I don feel like you really like me."

Etc. Etc.

Sound like they were too sensitive.

 

[iLLusoYuN_Da_Adidas_King]

what did I say in the OP

bytch that is treating your man special wtf.

 

[88m3]

doing domestic things around the house without asking

take care of your mind and be able to have meaningful conversations

take care of your body and stay in shape

 

[Wild self]

They told me

"You're selfish"

"You're disrespectful"

"I don feel like you really like me."

Etc. Etc.

Try cooking and cleaning without him asking. Also coddle him with mad love and actually open your mind outside reality TV and drama.

 

[resurrection]

Also don't do that shyt a lot of women do where you basically "keep score" of how much you do for each other. If you're cleaning up or cooking dinner but you have an attitude the whole time because all you can think about is "why isn't he helping?" it kinda negates whatever good will you generate from actually doing the thing. Slamming the plate down on the table talking about "dinner " and shyt

 

[Wild self]

@PeridotPuss also, bring raw passion in sex over just regular sex with a face in it. As in, French kissing, caressing, stare into each other, and even letting him taste your booty a bit will make him and for having a woman like that.

 

[Mowgli]

Be yourself.

I honestly can say there was nothing wrong with my ex. She was smart, groomed, cooked, cleaned & pleased me sexually but I couldn't see a future in her.

Where my girl now is far less "domesticated" & submissive but I see everything in her.

I prefer authenticity rather than dealing with a robot who's following the 101 rules on how to catch and keep a man.

And soon you'll learn the error of those ways.

A woman catering to you doesn't make her a robot

And a woman who does none of that doesn't make her authentic.

How can you see everything in someone who does nothing.

I'ma keep it 100 with you fukk your stomach, fukk your funky draws, cook your own food I'm not your mother. CURTAINS.

Yall have kids together and she's huffing and puffing at the thought of cooking for her own children n got you doin all the domestic work. Or worse she do everything for the babies and tell you to do your own shyt.


You gone learn though. Ex girlfriend probably wasn't fly enough and new chick got your nose open physically.

 

[BigMan]

Lol, if only they cared about becoming men who are worth submitting too.

It's all about submission with these dudes what about respect or adoration

 

[shagnificent belafonte]

First...find a MAN you trust enough to follow..
Then....let him lead...thats what we do...
If he lets himself be vulnerable around you
cherish that shyt...DONT take it for weakness

Example, if the breh sick...it could just be a lil head cold but he actin like its ebola or sum shyt...dont say he overreactin or you've been way sicker than that...shut the fukk up, make pimpin sum theraflu or chicken noodle soup give him a hug and say itll be ok....

If dude is stressed nurture him...but let him be the man...never bring up his moments of weakness...and follow him and only him...fukk what anyone else has to say bout it...

Man leads the woman nurtures and follows...thats what a real relationship is about...its that simple...

And oh yeah...suck his dikk and fix a sandwhich...

 

[FTBS]

Know when to fall back and shut the fukk up. You don't have to win every argument. What you want or prefer is not paramount at every moment. Be aware of things that he is sensitive about and respect them, don't use them as ammo. Also know when to speak up and how to do so respectfully and reasonably. Many women hold shyt in and then explode on a dude when they can't take anymore, leaving him confused and thinking you are crazy. Biggest thing is do your due diligence and ensure that this man is worthy of all this thought and effort to begin with.

 

[iBrowse]

My last post in the thread but its for all women.


You don't know how much it affects your man mentally and emotionally when we know we have a woman that genuinely wants to make her man feel like a king and is willing to sacrifice her comfort to increase his. Stuff like that will have a man going to the moon and back for you. But it requires you being vulnerable


A man will reconsidering all kind of things for a woman like that.

Dont get it twisted and try this with some immature dude or dude that is about games though. Otherwise you in for a world of heartache

I said in another thread a few days ago that in considering putting grad school off another year smfh

@Gus Money I need your advice breh

 

[myBlackisGodly]

And soon you'll learn the error of those ways.

A woman catering to you doesn't make her a robot

And a woman who does none of that doesn't make her authentic.

How can you see everything in someone who does nothing.

I'ma keep it 100 with you fukk your stomach, fukk your funky draws, cook your own food I'm not your mother. CURTAINS.

Yall have kids together and she's huffing and puffing at the thought of cooking for her own children n got you doin all the domestic work. Or worse she do everything for the babies and tell you to do your own shyt.


You gone learn though. Ex girlfriend probably wasn't fly enough and new chick got your nose open physically.

You're lost breh.

There are women out there that cater because you're their man (my girl), and there are women who cater bc you are a man (robots)

Learn the difference.

 

[Mowgli]

You're lost breh.

There are women out there that cater because you're their man (my girl), and there are women who cater bc you are a man (robots)

Learn the difference.

Your girl is far less domesticated and submissive but she caters to you because you're who you are.


Sounds shaky

 

[myBlackisGodly]

Your girl is far less domesticated and submissive but she caters to you because you're who you are.


Sounds shaky

Yes far less domesticated and submissive compared to my ex, doesnt mean she isn't at all.