Some dudes movin foul out here

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yeah I feel like a lot of people are dumb as shyt with the good folks caught in the crossfire.

Pretty much dating in 2022

 

[Wildhundreds]

But how do we know this?

A lot of women get pregnant without the man's consent or even discussing it. Some guys want to wait until they got the finances.

Just one small snippet

So what are these men thinking when going raw?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Sadly a lot of people out here who think a child will fix a relationship already heading towards the rocks.

Selfish thinking.

 

[LadyJ2]

So what are these men thinking when going raw?

They’re thinking she is on birth control or something. Or on the same page and wants to wait too.

Also some men are playing the field while the chick thinks he is committed. I have seen this a lot. Mans running around so “main” has baby to cause other chicks to fall back. Sometimes it works.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

I got a text from one of my homies from college. He split up with his wife after they had a baby and now he's got a girlfriend before the divorce papers even been drafted.

nikka said he felt 'suffocated' nikka, thats your baby too

Maybe it wasn’t the baby. A women after having a child can literally drive you crazy. If you never been there don’t judge. Some chicks will lead you To a early death.

I stayed with mine but I literally went into a depression mode and had thoughts of ended it all dealing with her during that period of time

And divorces can last from months to a year. If he moved on, oh well

As long as he taking care of his child, what’s the issue

 

[Rawtid]

Wife needs to leave him with baby and his new girlfriend while she finds someone new. Really gonna lose his breath when he has to raise a new infant. Lucky for him, women don’t mind playing saved games.

 

[Mike Nasty]

This dude tho realized TOO LATE that fatherhood and married life ain't easy. Cracked under the pressure

Wait until he enters the divorced man paying child support and alimony phase of life.

 

[8WON6]

damn, people ran with shyt with zero knowledge of how the woman acts.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

So what are these men thinking when going raw?

They’re thinking she is on birth control or something. Or on the same page and wants to wait too.

Also some men are playing the field while the chick thinks he is committed. I have seen this a lot. Mans running around so “main” has baby to cause other chicks to fall back. Sometimes it works.

Yup, boils down to trust. They put their faith that the woman would never stop taking birth control. If they got married, chances are they had a good relationship, but he was waiting to have kids.

 

[fact]

This is a situation of a nikka not knowing his place
Why would you share this with a bunch of strangers that consistently take the moral high ground when they not living right themselves
Nor do some of these nikkas even have real life experience to back their posts
You don’t know what was going on in their household unless you were privy to every aspect of their lives
You don’t know who did what
You are leaving tons of information out and leaving a lot to be assumed to get the people going
It’s 3 sides to every story
As long as he takes care of his seed
None of that other shyt matters

I know for a fact that a lot of these folks in the coli are solid irl *pause*. I think they come on here and get their edgy shyt off, and then log off and live that normal, “square” life. It’s a bunch of folks that say the most extreme thing they can think of to fit in, for daps, but then be in their girls face on some “anything else I can get you, babe”, which is a good thing, but then come on here talking that “MGTOW” shyt.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

It goes both ways and we don't know what was going behind those closed doors. How long were they together before marriage? Did they discuss kids before hand? How do we know he didn't want a kid but she had one anyway?

All of those things can be asked, we don't know what's going on between couples.

I hadn't even spoke to dude in a minute so I was taken aback by all this. He was in love and was the one that proposed.

I think it was the classic case of a man doing what he's expected to do. Graduate, get married before 30, have kids, and live happily ever after.

Way he tells it, he felt like she wasn't satisfied by his efforts and he 'wasn't ready' for all this.

Its okay to not be married before 30 or be a father in your early 30s. Everyone gotta move at their own speed and I think a LOT of people underestimate the toll that a new child will take on your health.

 

[kingdizzy01]

But how do we know this?

A lot of women get pregnant without the man's consent or even discussing it. Some guys want to wait until they got the finances.

Just one small snippet

THIS! people say women should choose better, in reality its US MEN who should choose better! stop fukkin random hoes brehs unless u double wrappin and your pullout game is strong!! MESSAGE!

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

THIS! people say women should choose better, in reality its US MEN who should choose better! stop fukkin random hoes brehs unless u double wrappin and your pullout game is strong!! MESSAGE!

When that male birth control pill pops off its going to be a game changer for better or worse. Dudes may delay father hood into their 40s since men can have more control over the pregnancy. Right now your options are condoms, abstinence or be 100% sure your girl has very effective birth control (e.g. IUD, pill)

 

[1thouwow]

The woman initiate majority of divorces, he just beat her to the punch

 

[King Poetic]

That nikka was already cheating before the baby was even conceived, to just smoothly moved on right away

Now he left his wife without options and pretty sure he not taking care of the kid